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My husband and me are separated from past 1 year.It was an abusive relationship both physically and mentally. I recently applied for divorce and I thought it would be a very hard process. But today I got the news that he is willing to sign the papers. Rather than feeling happy I’m feeling very low. I’m shocked that he is not trying hard and I’m imagining what his family is discussing about me. Why am I thinking like this? Am I crazy? I don’t want to be with him ever and I can’t live with that abuse. There should be some logical explanation for my thoughts but I’m finding none and its making me even more anxious.

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It happens, no one is perfect, so please don’t blame yourself, stay calm, trust the process

Anonymous

Thank you 😊

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Feel excited about your new start in life. You are absolutely done with your past & there is nothing left to claim now. So let it go & welcome your new life ahead. All the best.

Anonymous

Thank you 😊

Anonymous

It human tendency to feel disappointed in things that are supposed to be good for you. sometimes this feeling is very less and sometimes it just becomes your whole mood. I understand you had expectations. But those expectations need to be retrieved and those bonds with that abusive person should be broken. You shou Totally look forward to your newly found freedom and life. I hope you do the best in your life. Xoxo❤️

Anonymous

Thank you 😊