My girlfriend has a very messed up past which is affecting her present very badly…she hardly talks to anyone…she says nothing makes her happy not even her own parents…I am very much worried about her…I dont know how i can help her in this please suggest something
Assure her that it won’t happen to her again ever. Whenever she thinks about he past, try to distract her. Console her when she wants to cry. Don’t let her supress her feelings. While she’s thinking about her past, show her how the present is more beautiful and secure than her past. She’ll start forgetting about it eventually
See if you love her alott then make assure that she feel safe in your arms Whtever, 🙂if you can take her out i know its pandemic but just go and meet take cycle go to her home if u can make calls talk to each other just comfort her, and says sab ek nhi hote, tell her how much u love her, post pictures with her make her happy that’s it
Honestly i have tried everything but in some or the other way her past bothers her so much…and this pandemic has just made it worst than ever!
Man, don’t get offended but seriously you’re her present nd future past shouldn’t bother her, if she has choose u she have something in mind na, past Kiya krleega uske life mein smjhao usko past ke sath rahi na hogya aur life uska, tumrha bhi barbad sath mein uska bhi so make her understand ki past bhulo mein ek new insaan hu mere sath sab new hein nd wht else can u do tell me
See, i too went from this phase not me many do but if its from so many days then ask her do she want to continue her life like this crying being sad that’s what she planned for her life her dreams no ryt so let her talk ask her nhi hona chaiye yaar ese ek past ke liye btw past mein hua kiya tha can ik
Okayyy thankyouu
Puh.tato @kumkum
Just be with her. Listen to her when she talks, comfort her, give her little cute surprises, always be there for. Maybe you’re the one who gives her happiness. If someone goes through a trauma, it takes time to heal, you can support and help them but in the end it’s them who have to heal by themselves. Show your love to her, the positive aspects of live. Make her think about the future and how positive and great it’s gonna be.
I do…I try to do everything that will make her happy but she says that i deserve better coz she can’t love me like i love her…I love her without any reason and it doesn’t matter to me if she can’t love me the way i do…her past has made her so cold hearted…n I am trying my best to comfort her make her believe that i am not gonna do any such thing that others did in her past
Puh.tato @kumkum
Believe it or not, I think she’s grateful for you being there for her. I take that she has been through so much. so it’s gonna take time to bring her walls down. just keep loving her the way you do. tell her it’s your decision whether to stay or not and that you plan to be with her.
I hope the best for you both
Thankyou🥺❤
luckybutunlucky... @luckybutunluckygirl
You are such a caring boyfriend !!!😍😍😍
I am a bisexual girl and have a girlfriend…anyways thakyou:)
luckybutunlucky... @luckybutunluckygirl
WOW !!!
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