🧸🎀 @toxichousehold2
My friends are so dull and for once I want to change the narration of my story and I really feel that something is off in my life and with whom I choose to become friends with, 2022 is coming and I want to cut those people OFF, they are not beneficial at all to my life and I’m tired of having to belittle myself to fit into their standards, I want to change something for the better. I saw a quote that says you are who you hangout with but I’m not this kind of person, my friends always tell me to stfu when I want to participate in something cuz I know how to talk English better than them but I worked hard for that and I still do. THEY DO NOT DESERVE ME but I don’t know how to cut them, I don’t want to be impolite or just rude to anyone but they didn’t even do the minimum that I did to become who I am and I AM SATISFIED that I worked hard but I’m not satisfied with the people whom I’m friends with
It is surprising how much I relate to it, and I’m sure there are many more who feel the same…
Uk, if a gardener is reluctant to cut off the outgrowths, the plant gets affected from it …
within a few weeks I realised that the people I call “FRIENDS” don’t really care about my personal growth. A person who isn’t your well-wisher or doesn’t contribute to your growth encourages us for our own good isn’t the person we need in life! Ik it is a hard pill to swallow but as they say, it is what it is.
🧸🎀 @toxichousehold2
I want to know how to cut them off. Politely
Probably subsiding them, not prioritizing them, not offering your ‘whole’ self to them, knowing when and where to stop and gradually the other one gets the idea too…
🧸🎀 @toxichousehold2
They keep coming back
prolly having a face-to-face convo with them? might help
🧸🎀 @toxichousehold2
You want me to leave my bed who has always been there for me just to see the face of people who literally repel me
I led a suggestion, which isn’t a compulsion, secondly, I didn’t ask u to get up and have a face-to-face convo ATM. take ur time to solve pieces
🧸🎀 @toxichousehold2
I don’t want to end 2021 remembering their faces and I wanna do it without them noticing, like yk when you ghost someone by time they forget abt you and stop being friend with you cuz they are wasting their time, yeah I wanna do it like that
whatever works best for u!
