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@visalini

my friends always say whenever a guy rejects me (it has hpnd like 3 times till date)tat he doesnt deserve me and i will find some1 much btr. i dont understand this. wat is wrong with me. every1 likes me as a frnd but they dont see me as a girlfrnd. i have declined some boys too. so i sometimes think tat its karma. since rejected and hurted some, others do tat to me. i see ppl getting committed around me though they r not having pure intentions. All this just upsets me and i dont know wat to do. i am not a kid. i am 23 yrs old and still wasnt even loved by some1 i wished to love. 🥲

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Anonymous

I am 25 is it 0key to be frnds and then to next level

@visalini

i am okay with being frnds.

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Syed Musfir @syef

Love is wonderful things when you realise it may some special feeling

@visalini

all it does is hurt me

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anuj @anujvohra

Don’t over think this…just be friends with people and then take to next stage

@visalini

all those who rejected me were once my frnds. i thought they liked me back.

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anuj @anujvohra

It doesn’t matter…just be yourself and focus on yourself… tk care

@visalini

take care u too

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Sharath G @sharath3012

Exactly hpnd to me as well but i think she isn’t at fault …

@visalini

i dont understand wat u mean

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Sharath G @sharath3012

I too got rejected by a girl who was my friend once

@visalini

shit hpns bro

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Sharath G @sharath3012

Exactly but she isn’t at fault… She is a nice person

@visalini

ya. i understand and accept tat. its there choice to accept or reject. and we have no control over this. and knowing this fact hurts more

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Sharath G @sharath3012

Yeah … That hits hard😑 however no point in sinking in thoughts regarding that, right just move on… U will find a nice person… All the best in advance👍

Syed Musfir @syef

I met you can you rember me

@visalini

??? met u

Rakesh @rakesh_2025

Don’t think that nobody loves and all, it’s matter of time, u r just 23yr old. U have lot to see in life, have patience your time will also come, u only u rejected few that itself shows there were people who loved you right.
So enjoy every moment of your life, it’s not necessary that whoever u want they should love u back, life can’t go as we wish. Be a good friend and person thinks will fall in place automatically

@visalini

😀😀😀

@visalini

😀

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percy @percy_

It’s okay to be single and it’s quite normal if u see around…what u need it’s the connection …
Ya sure Maybe u need to take things slower and slowly feel that okay we gonna take next step .
Feeling odd one out is very normal.
Most important thing is to be independent of your own happiness…
Your happiness doesn’t need to revolve around or depend upon others.
U need be self loved and self sufficient until you are valued or loved as much as you deserve. ✌🏼

@visalini

when every1 has some1 to care for them, y i have no1 apart frm my parents? i dont know wat is wrong with me

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percy @percy_

Nothing is wrong with…
We all feel loneliness and who said everyone has someone
Even if we have friends or family but
I am telling u truly even i can’t call someone at 3 am in night and express myself, my stress , my anxiety, my silly banter to someone…
But that doesn’t mean we stop looking
U and me and many people like Us are just trying to be loved by someone, cared someone
We just have to keep looking
That’s it…
Hold on to that tiny hope
Maybe u r at end of the tunnel and ray of light is just little far away
Just keep moving, hold to that hope little longer

Priya @darujk

I hope someone is there for you
Just Wait
I know waiting is so hard
But plz wait 😊

@visalini

i am waiting. but being patient is very difficult

@nnreddy

Don’t worry for rejections you will get another good person…

@visalini

every1 tell this. but every gud person i find rejects me🌝

@nnreddy

Don’t feel.

@visalini

trying bruh

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Anonymous

If you are not getting something then probably god is protecting you from unprecedented.
I too had a gf . We had a relationship of more than 1 year but ended like as if it never existed but that is where i contemplated and found myself.
You are being rejected, there must be hidden lesson in it. Find it , contemplate and find who you actually are.

And one thing more , you should be proud of yourself that you have the courage to say to the person that you like them.

@visalini

i sometimes think, ppl take me for granted after i say them i like them🥲.

@visalini

ya even i am in search of who i am actually. hoping to find and culture me in a positive way

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Anonymous

This generally happen when we don’t tell them that you are my friend but that doesn’t give you the right to treat me as a scum.
I too had the same past. My friends used to treat me like, even if you don’t exist , that won’t concern us. As years passed , i went into college , found new friends. There I realised what exactly the word friends mean.
Now i don’t even call my school friends and they consider me selfish and one with attitude.
See , until you remain like people pleasing person nobody is going to respect your presence. You should make them realise that if you take me for granted , i am gonna distance myself.
I didn’t even talk to college friends for two years after my graduation as i was dealing with breakup but when i started connecting with them , they behaved like we have never been seperated.
They talk to me with the same energy.
People who don’t respect you gonna complain if you seperate from them.
People who respect you gonna welcome you even if you talk to them once a year.
Surround yourself with people who want good for you , then you will never feel that i am being taken advantage of.
Be strong , have self esteem is all that i can suggest you for now as i am of the same age as you and still growing.

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Anonymous

Good luck. 🤜🤛

Anonymous

😊😊😊 i am not taken granted by my frnds. it by those guys who i confess to

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Anonymous

My motive was not to tell you that friends are bad however it was to make to realise that the person who is gonna respect your presence will consider you.

Anonymous

ya🙌

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Anonymous

Hey… There is nothing like karma.
Like according to Chaos Theory… “If a butterfly flaps his wings in Texas then it may be a reason of tornado in Uk”.
But according to karma… " If tornado is happening in UK, then the butterfly will flap his wings" But it can’t happen…
A butterfly may be a reason of tornado but tornado can’t be a reason of butterfly to fly.
And rest of things… The guy should be compatible to you. Means you both should be compatible to each other. There should be love not only infatuations.
And being in love if you realize that next person is not compatible for me Or it’s not love it’s just infatuation. Then it’s good that you have break up. Otherwise you both was suffering in relationship.
So try to find a person which is compatible to you. When you both will be compatible to each other then… You will be able to better understand.
After that… You can do love.

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Abhijeet A.K @akabhi

Love a person who loves you 🤗

@visalini

but i sometimes feel love alone isnt sufficient for a happy relationship. u can love some1 to any extent, but tat maynot make them happy. Nd i am sometimes scared tat, wat if i trust and love them and they end up abandoning me

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Anonymous

Why will they abandoned you? When both the partners understand each other then it will be a happy life if not then we have to make our life happier and we should do work when makes us happy 🥰

Syed Musfir @syef

All I want you for my love

@visalini

???

@virendra07

Dont say as if its your fault or karma .Let it go .You have a right to express your feelings and we should respect other persons opinion or answer .if it no then no worries. Just remember things that are meant for you will come to you. And dont force for a relationship. Orelse you wil get hurt if its a toxic one. You too will find someone better .Mark my words 😊

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