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akshitasharma @gudia

My friend does not text me even I text her she seems not interested but on the other if we meet in offline she spends most of time with me but whenever she is with her online friends she forget me and I am only who seems waiting for her text … whenever I phone her she does not talk more but on the other hand whenever she call me I talked her … it seems I’m just fool for her …

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Shivay @shivay2595

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Sorry to say but it’s clearly a one way friendship., well you should once talk to her and explain what you are feeling and that you are not comfortable with this kind of friendship and tell her if she’s interested she would have to put more efforts

akshitasharma @gudia

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I didn’t know what kind of friendship is this sometimes I think maybe I’m not with her during her hard time her online friends with her whenever she is sad πŸ˜”πŸ˜žβ€¦ unfortunately she does not give me that attention online the way she give me offline .

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Shivay @shivay2595

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Since when you both are friends.
And secondly how will you be with her when’s not talking to you. Till the time she won’t share what’s in her mind, how will you know

akshitasharma @gudia

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Maybe your online bond is just only for if I appreciated her and put sad stories and she replied… that’s it … she does not mssge me first but on the other hand she is online and talked with other one .

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Anonymous
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How you know that she spent time online with others??
It’s probably because of her home environment.
And in my opinion It’s much better to spent time offline.

akshitasharma @gudia

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Yeah but sometimes I think that maybe she spent time with me in offline bcz there phn is not with her and there is no online friend soo… and I believe both online and offline the bond remain samee … if I want to tak in text mssge she just repky on my text or mssge me when there is no online except me … it means she need me whenever she is bored or there is no one expect me

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Anonymous
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Same thing happening now to me as well I thought we both were good friends but she avoids whenever she is with other people but when no-one is around she talks I once tried not to call or text first ant it took almost 1and half month to call me but that to only to help her with chores. When ever i share my feelings about anything she doesn’t care just says a few generic words and talks about her issues. And i did love her but I never said, so i cant just ignore her completely . im happy to help her but these activities makes me feeling ignored and not worth enough

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Anonymous
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Because of this i developed tryst issues with my other friends who when I think actualy care

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Anonymous
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Ignore her from now.πŸ‘πŸ»

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Prabhakar M N @mnpsatan13

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Try asking your friend about this

akshitasharma @gudia

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But the main problem is that I feel very nervous whenever I text her … if I text her I know how it feels and whenever we talk I am literally just seeing our old chat like an idiot …

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Anonymous
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She isn’t your friend

akshitasharma @gudia

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Yeah I also think first but one day she tell me that the only me and her online bestfriend are the close ones for her … and she is also possesive about me …

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Mayank @true_who

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It’s not a big deal it’s just priority varies. When u r wid her she is hanging wid u so don’t worry. Sometimes, verbal talks don’t convey our true emotions

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