my friend and i are kinda fighting like idk what I did wrong I asked him about it but he is not ready to respond or do anything if I'm texting him he's replying but if I'm not then there is no text from his side I really don't know what to do. should I try talking to him again or don't do anything??


I did :( it's been 3-4 days. He's my best friend it's just eating me inside about what happened to him. 

There must be something...like how much you used to talk to each other..maybe u can figure out the base of this by going through what else he/she opened up to u.. that's one possible source of answer..

He saw the red flags 🚩. For solution meet him in green panties. 😭😂

3am Thoughts

So there's this boy I feel in love with about a year ago. He is one person I can't be with. We talk everyday. Like he is the best thing in my life and I couldn't ask for anything else.
But it's like am afraid of what if he walks away from my life? What will I do??? Its like the whole day I talk to him from good morning to goodnight. I cry with him I laugh with him. I don't talk to anyone else . It's like I don't need anyone elseee. Everyone tells me that being with him like this is just gonna hurt me. It will be like breaking up with someone you never dated. But I dont seem to understand it the only thing I know is that I love him so much that even if he is with someone else I dont have a problem with it. And that am happy with just having him in my life talking to him everyday . My day is incomplete without him. He understands me like no one else doesss. I can tell him everything without feeling judged but that fear never goes away that he can leave me he can go from my life although i know that he is not a kind of person who just walk away like thattt....... I don't know what should i do????? Should I distance myself????

I have a little crush problem.... I have crush on this guy and we often flirt and things like that. I know him since i was born. He would often tell me how he wanted to kiss me, be with me... i started having feelings for him. So we would flirt like every night and we would talk a lotttttt. I really thought he wanted to have shomething with me. 3 nights ago i started our usual flirting. I said i wanna kiss him. He said he can't kiss me bc he has a girlfriend... They started dating before few weeks. I was so sad and embarrassed. Tears started roalling down my face. I felt really bad and i felt a lot of feelings i can't explain. I don't know if i should move on or wait... Maybe their relationship will end soon, maybe he will love me after. I just can't let go of him. He was only guy I felt comfortable with, i felt safe with him, i felt like he loved me. I am not trying to ruin his relationship with that girl, i will probably wait for it to end... I need help. So should i wait or muve on?

Hi so I'm 27 and I've been thinking about marriage lately and I haven't been in a single relationship till now and my family is asking me to get married and I don't believe in arranged marriages due to bad experiences and I can't get into arranged marriages just by meeting this guy for a few months and then get married to him and it's completely strange to me so i thought Id get married to someone I know and I have one of my friends who likes me and we spoke to each other for a month he is in USA and then I put a stop to it cos I thought I was rushing into things I mean my parents got to know about it and they said okay cos they know him from very long and he's well settled and I don't know everyone rushed me at a time including the guy so I thought instead of saying yes when I'm not sure it's better to say No. I don't know if he's the guy I usually don't have clarity and he dint text me or call me since then it's like he doesn't even care l. I also felt like he's not compatible but since that day I haven't stopped thinking of him. Everyone were mad at me cos I ruined this but thing is I just want to know what I did was right or wrong and I don't know if I should talk to him again or should I wait for him to talk cos I already texted him once and we spoke normally but seems like the guy doesn't care anymore. I don't know what I should do. I'm so done with this marriage and all. I have anxiety and may be due to this I am getting triggered and I'm ruining everything or I don't know. Im just tired

Marriage

It is very hard to let go my relationship. I wish things could be done in a different way. Or may be if he would have just fought a bit more for us. He gave up too early on us. Too early. In this journey I have just learnt one lesson guys, JUST THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK. And you'll be good to go professionally and personally  

Lonely

Hello I'm feeling so bad. I brokeup with my boyfriend yesterday cuz I thought we were so toxic. We were in a 4 year relationship. Its hard for me to move on. I was so in love with him. But he kept on doubting on me for the things I don't even do. I got tired of clearing all his misunderstandings that I have never got to clear my own. I feel so sad right now. This is my first day of not talking to him.  How will I stay tomorrow without talking to him
 How will I move on?

My first crush happened 11 years ago and after that I met him after 8 years we interacted and I got to know he is in relationship, it broke me a little but then I continued with my life after few months he said he wants to breakup with his gf as she is possessive and very dominating he started sharing his feelings with me eventually we fell in love its been 3 yrs wat we have is unstable because according to him his gf is very clingy and at one point I got so frustrated I left him totally with his gf and started meeting other people and knowing them but I just couldn't feel for anyone the way I felt for him and parted my ways with another guy, I just cannot get him out of my mind and am controlling myself from talking to him I miss him and cry for him but couldn't help and now things have taken turn in a manner where he wants me but knows he can't cling and hold me as he said if she wants to marry me I will marry her.. All I know is he loves me and I m sure about it, but he is just letting me go I can stay if I want to but eventually we will split and I can't be his side chic i want to be his whole.. But if being with her is what's best for him I will be more than happy for him, he thinks she can take care of his family and that's just the reason why he is ready to get married to her.. Sometimes I feel like running back to him but than I again remember that he is officially with someone else and it takes myself a little everyday.. Why did we met again after so many years and why did we fell for each other what did this thought me,except of pain and hurt


Relationships

Iam in very big confusion. My parents has fixed one allaince for me for marriage. But i just broke up with my bf a month ago. He used to get money from people for debt but will barely return them money. Thats the reason for our break up. But except money thing, he used to treat me better and I was always free in that relationship without any barriers. Iam having oscillation between fiance and my bf. I feel like i still have feelings for my bf and whenever i see him I feel like to hug him. Also my fiance is also good. He is having basic good qualities. Also i feel like no one will marry my bf if iam not marrying him as he has bad name in the city because of money problem. Without money thing he is a very good guy. Please help me to sort it out. Im tired of crying

Hi,
4 years ago, I had a crush on one of my colleagues(can say one sided love).
I confessed my feelings to him but he decently dodged the confession. 
 Pendamic came and we started work from home. After a few months we both switched to another companies. We used to talk occasionally on chat, I used to keep waiting for his texts his small gesture or gif made my heart flutter.. it was hard to control my one sided feeling so I decided to stop talking to him.

Few months later he lost his mother, he texted me and I wanted to run Chennai and console him. But I knew he saw me as a friend so I didn't express my feelings. 
 One year later he texted that he is getting married. It broke my heart. It took me time to accept it.. I congratulated him and made up my mind to move on in life. 

Later, Work from office started and I got busy in my life.. after a few months of his wedding, again he texted and we had a casual talk about work and life. He said he is having problems in his married life, things are not going right and they are planning to get divorce. I thought there was a usual husband wife fight so, I tried to explain to him. I was leaving the banglore in a few days so, he said he wanted to meet before I left. He flew from Chennai to Bangalore and we met, He told all the problems, I tried my best to give solutions but no use.
After that he started texting often, giving updates about his life, many times he said he made a big mistake in life to not understand my feelings that time. He is regretting his decision. 

I didn't want to give him hopes from my side because now it won't be any chance for us to be together. But he said he wants to live his life with me. He had feelings since starting but didn't express because it might affect my career. 

Now I don't know what to do.

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