My friend A asked me to hangout tomorrow. I said i’m in. But next day i just made a change in plan timings. I went out with my friend B and idk we kinda reunited after a very long time and we just lost track of time. So unconsciously i kinda ditched my friend A. But I kinda meet daily to friend A. She got pissed and is avoiding me. I don’t find any valid reason to be that pissed and still i apologised to her. She’s still ignoring me. It’s quite childish. So even i didn’t try to talk to her because i don’t find myself to be the one sorting it out. I did apologise once. I’m not going to do it again and again. Or shall i do it? What do you guys think?
joonie @shykid
I do understand it, kinda went through this once. Yes they do get angry at us because they have expectations from us. What you did was wrong and i would have been angry too but i would have understood your side. think just for the sake of your friendship, do go to them and tell them if they are angry then confess everything they want to. And then put your side up. I hope it gets resolved soon bc you didn’t purposely did that
yeah i get it but she knew that i’ll be hanging out with my school friends. It’s not that i didn’t call her back. I got back home a bit late. I did call her multiple times. She was out at that time. I could have hung out with her if she had picked up the call. I did apologised and said i really feel sorry about it. But she just ignored my text.
You are wrong here. You should have told friend A that you won’t be able to meet them. Instead you ditched that friend. It’s gonna hurt no matter if you meet each other daily or not. You have no right to call them childish, while you should’ve acted maturely. The only way is to make them accept your apology. Offer to do them something that they like or just try to meet them personally and explain your pov.
Okay, i do accept that it was my fault. I should’ve told her. But even if i had informed her earlier that i might be late and will hangout wt you sometime tomorrow, then also she would react the same way. I did informed her that i’ll go meet my school friends. She sounded off that time only.
Kunal Kumar @kunalk23
It’s your fault
do you really think it is? What should i do now?
