My first crush happened 11 years ago and after that I met him after 8 years we interacted and I got to know he is in relationship, it broke me a little but then I continued with my life after few months he said he wants to breakup with his gf as she is possessive and very dominating he started sharing his feelings with me eventually we fell in love its been 3 yrs wat we have is unstable because according to him his gf is very clingy and at one point I got so frustrated I left him totally with his gf and started meeting other people and knowing them but I just couldn’t feel for anyone the way I felt for him and parted my ways with another guy, I just cannot get him out of my mind and am controlling myself from talking to him I miss him and cry for him but couldn’t help and now things have taken turn in a manner where he wants me but knows he can’t cling and hold me as he said if she wants to marry me I will marry her… All I know is he loves me and I m sure about it, but he is just letting me go I can stay if I want to but eventually we will split and I can’t be his side chic i want to be his whole… But if being with her is what’s best for him I will be more than happy for him, he thinks she can take care of his family and that’s just the reason why he is ready to get married to her… Sometimes I feel like running back to him but than I again remember that he is officially with someone else and it takes myself a little everyday… Why did we met again after so many years and why did we fell for each other what did this thought me,except of pain and hurt
Hi, I think you should be selfish for your peace of mind,just because you love him with all of your heart he does not. You will meet somebody who will be in the relationship with you as much as you’re are there, it’s a phase give it some time
That’s what I am doing right now and understanding and accepting my feelings I just don’t want him for the sake of wanting him… Its just my heart needs a little time or maybe some sign that he will be back although ik he won’t… Bringing myself out of this delusion slowly
Firstly hey I don’t think the guy fell for you, it could just have been a attraction part for him when he was about to leave the girl hez with , when hez very clear about marrying the other girl because she can take care of family these are just bullshit reasons , hez confused about himself n he just is playing around maybe u could have a question like if hez playing around why would he let me know he wants to marry her that is because it’s the new stupidity of people justifying there stupid actions , nextly he is not at any loss you are the one losing peace and happiness thinking about him this message might be harsh but I hope u see it clear hez jst not a grown up man hez still a stupid boy whoz trying to play it safe , I hope u find happiness, and move on there is so much in life ❤️
You are not at all harsh, Infact i would love to thank. You for same… Even if he is doing shitth things I will pray best for him and make sure I move on… He makes some way to talk to me i have blocked him from everywhere he makes another account just to wish me on my bday or if he gets to know by my friends that my health isn’t good, so I will make sure I don’t fall in this trap again
