My fiance is a very jolly person.. He's funny, kind and caring a lot too.. But when it comes to me.. All he gets is nervous to talk to, thinks a lot, very sensitive and says he's not feeling normal now.. 
I don't know what to do.. I have tried to win his trust on me and I see him talking very happily with others but when it comes to me he becomes conscious. It's very less time that I have known him..

As per know what I heard is we get nervous when we talk with someone we love / like ..so it happens give him some time to know you ..every thing will be alright..

You should prolly talk to him about this. Tell him its okay. This could prolly bring change. I had experienced similar issue like thaay of your  fiance ...i was nervous to talk to my crush.....after which she noticed it and told be to be more friendly than formal way....everything changed!! Trust me talk to him.!

Stress

Hey ! Y’all I don’t know how to even begin with. But yes I’m a boy. There’s this one guy whom I’ve been friends with but I’ve been having feelings for him secretly. He used to be my best friend in high school. But now we hardly talk, cause we always fight a lot back then. But he doesn’t know that I love him so much !!! 
Now that we’re in the same college but different semester and class. He has been avoiding me lately and whenever I text or call him he doesn’t show interest and I get that he’s trying to push me away. But I love him too much that I can’t even be without him and he has became my addiction. How do I tell him that I live him even tho I know that it will surely get messed up ??? 
#crush #hearbroken #bff

One Sided Love

So i have this male friend we study together in university. He had a bad breakup scene in his past relationship few years ago. Now he got all interested in me and wanted to date me but i told him clearly i am not into this stuff. Afterwards we have become great friends, share stuff, often sit together and eventually after all this time we have kind of become romantically involved. But we are both afraid of committment and made it clear. Its not like i want him committed or want him to stay with me forever but now he often mentions that for now we are together no one knows the future etc etc but at the same time he says i love you though i dont really say it back but he wants to hear it. What is this mess can someone please guide me?

3am Thoughts

In the highest lows of my life, from job, family to love life. 
Everyone around me is either diapering or has to move somewhere. 
But the thing which is hurting me the most is my peaceful space, my companion being so lost to lose us. he says he is not able to, he says he loves me, he cares, he does show it, but in the clouded mind of his he is just not able to give any efforts into this, he has lost his hope that he is even the one for me and just feeling bad about the things he couldn't do. 
called it a breakup but we don't seem to do anything else, I don't, everything relies on me and I have zero power to work upon anything due to this. but all I am doing is yearning and trying to get him. 
I tried so many times that we could meet and smooth things out, he says he is not courageous enough to come and face me, what about the fact that i love him above that and all this is hurting me more? he got a job abroad and he might also leave without meeting me in this state of mind of his, he bid his goodbyes to everyone, meeting and preparing for every stuff he can but i will be without that meeting, with those unfinished dreams which I saw with him and he is gonna go, with his disturbed state of mind, I don't expect much, I do want to help him, but shouldn't he see how much all this will hurt me?
How will I live? I can't see him like this nor I can see myself like this, I am just not able to do anything. 

I am not happy with the relationship I’m having with my mom right now. I am having a hard time working on this strained relationship that we are having, and it’s been since months now. Ever since I’ve opened up about my boyfriend and I want to marry him. She hasn’t taken it well and I get to hear taunts, and mean statements just because he’s not from our caste. 
Until yesterday when the news was not broken to her, I was like her perfect daughter 
But now I’m zero for choosing a guy out of the caste. I feel very very terrible dealing with this 

Family

So we are bestfriends for 2and half years  .we share everything we look up for each other chat text . And catch up . We looked out our breakups (with other persons ) ND everything  we supported and we have been there for each other . During 2021 we often became more closure and we hanged out quite more times than usual in a month . So we came to one point that we like each other we share some similarities.  And we decided to jump our tag to relationship  ahh it went cool for 3-4 months he used to call me baby  and wife I thought everything  is going cool .so for the past few weeks we became more busier and also we are in long distance relationship  so communication became harder and putting time to each other became harder one fine day he told me let's break up its not going to work and u never set to me . And it's hard to me to digest this cause I thought  everything with him  but now what happening around me . Am I that much sadistic hoping and pleasing him to stay in my life because am not reading to leave him at any cost . I want him badly 

Breakup

hii guys! theres this guy i like him so much ..i literally think about him everytime .He is so nice and sweet guy and honestly a staight forward man ..I would say . i dont know if he likes me or not !? he texts me the minute after i text him,but he nerver opens up to me .like yesterday something happened with him ...i asked him if he wants to talk about it ...he said no and i didnt force him to speak with me ...but honestly i think he likes me little ... i dont know i just cant help but believe that .I ask him about what he does ,how he was etc but he never cared to ask me ... the only time he asked me ,about my stuff was when i met him ...and that was only for what 5-10 mins 
am i obsessing over him ?
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Relationships

Me and my ex have a LONg and complicated history. I recently left him because it felt like we just weren’t living on any similar kind of wavelength and our core values have changed too much. Even still, I can’t seem to accept it’s over. I used to vent to the people around me about all of the issues our relationship had and even about him (guaranteed some of it is deserved). We were together almost three years. I spent three birthdays with him. He helped shape me into who I am now. He saw me overcome addiction and fight for a better version of myself. It’s so sad that in the end we just weren’t vibing like that anymore. He still had interest in engaging in my problem behaviours and that HURT to watch. I look back on things now and I realise I wasn’t the most loving person and outright cruel at times, and he must’ve loved me so much for him to let that slide. I hope one day he realises the same for me. 
Now almost three months after the breakup I can’t get rid of his hoodies nor can I stop stalking his social media and getting hurt seeing him move on. I’m angry, I’m sad, I’m happy. It’s all such a mixed bag of things and I just hate going through this. 
I don’t exactly have very many people in my life at this very moment that I feel like I can entrust all of this to. My housemates are basically strangers, and although my parents care they still have some emotional tie to the situation so the words they offer aren’t always comforting. 
I’m taking myself back to therapy since there’s a massive array of other things cropping up too. I wish I could take a time out to catch up with myself and my emotions. 
The worst part about everything is I’m hardly a crier, even though I feel like I NEED to. My body just out right refuses. I’m tired of it. I want to shed the stupid necessity to seem strong. Maybe I am in some ways, but I feel so god damn tired of keeping a straight face. I saw a picture of myself from not even a few weeks ago and I can just see all of the sadness that’s behind my eyes but I just can’t seem to find the courage to let it out 

I need suggestions 
There is a boy who wants to be FWB  with me 
We have dated for 1 month and I have developed feelings for him but he hasn't have any feelings for me and when we were dating we got physical 
And now he never text me but whenever he does he only asks me for makeout
Should I become FWB with him
I don't know what to do


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