My father has stage IV prostate cancer… My family is trying to fight this battle but I guess this situation is so strong that we loses control at times… I burst out just last weekend…God knows how i tried to be positive and understand the situation… strengthening my patience till the end. Im just a human being…I loses control so I had a big fight with my Mom and Dad…I said words that hurt their feelings because they are being selfish, although its not the right word to say but thats what I feel… They think they are the only one who is suffering…They forgot about my feeling…Even if I tried to give them comfort and attend their needs but they didn’t see that…they just care about themselves. I know my father is in great pain and totally don’t know what he wants right now…coz he keeps on complaining and we must attend to all his needs almost every minute. It drives me crazy everyday dealing this situation…My Dad is strict even before his diagnosis…Now he always get angry everything we serve he doesn’t like…everything that i buy doesn’t like and every care that I give is not enough and just get angry…Thats what I get from him everyday…which is so frustrating…it hurts so much on my part and seeing him like that…I don’t know what to do, he doesn’t listen to anything now…😔😔
I am so sorry that you have to go through all this. I know its not easy at all. I guess its even normal to have a breakdown sometimes. I actually don’t know what to tell you. Your father is going through a lot of pain both physically and mentally, so please try to understand that. I know its difficult. And it will be actually really wrong if I just ask you to put up with all this because it will affect you in a bad way. So don’t put up with everything. But try to understand your father. Talk to him. Maybe just go and hug him once. Tell him that you love him (if you are an Indian, then I know that you most probably haven’t done this before), talk to him nicely and just tell him about your life. Sometimes that is all it takes to fix things.
