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Anonymous

My father drinks too much and has had drinking problems.
He does things a responsible person and a 50 year old shouldn’t do.
Because of him the entire family suffers.

Coming to the main confessions .
After numerous requesting begging and doing everything I lost my cool and I slapped my father’s back and hand a couple of times in anger and it felt really bad and I cried alot later in my room .

I feel so helpless and guilty at the same time.
Of only he quits Alcohol he could do a lot better with his relationship.
But still hitting the person is wrong and I am guilty and will never undo it.
It did not damage him physical but I know it must have hurt his heart …but he simply doesn’t care how he hurts my mother’s , sisters and my heart by his actions.

What do I do guys ? I don’t know

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Bees_knees @nichol

Although I will never support the physical actions you took…

I know someone who has had similar issues with their dad and ended up hitting him… the person was extremely ​guilty and cried alone… the father later came to say sorry for his behaviour…

Later, they even discussed their issues…

That was definitely a turning point in her dad’s life and his behaviour over the years has seen tremendous changes…

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Anonymous

Heu buddy, I understand you must be feeling so guilty and worst.
But it all happened in the heat of moment, right… n d reason behind ur actions was only the betterment if family.
Remember how parents hit kids if they don’t listen, it kinda resulted in the same way. Hope this will make him realise things, n you all can be happy together

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