My father doesn't support me, I wanna become an airhostess.... What do I do...?

Grow up
Take your own decisions

Listen to his suggestions very carefully try to understand why he is saying what he is saying ,analyse his assumptions ,logic through which he came to this conclusion but take your own decision

3am Thoughts

Hi 
So I just wanted to talk and get a random opinion about something which has been troubling me for some time wouldn't wanna share the details but here you go I'm a almost in college student had applied to some of the very best colleges got into the second best one and have to appear for a exam for the backup options so the problem is the second best option is kinda expensive but I guess my parents can afford that but also that it's far from my place that means I have to shift to a place nearby to it and all the other added expenses travelling rent electricity of that place water etc etc whereas the backup options are nearer to my place I can live with my parents and all my expenses would count as the normal ones but the college ranks no 15 and would not end up giving me good opportunities in the future 
I don't wanna be a burden on my parents but I wanna enjoy my life with no regrets as well , WHAT SHOULD I DO IM V CONFUSED AND THE THOUGHT IS HAUNTING ME NOW

Career

Any psychology or philosophy students or enthusiasts here
Would love to connect and have a good conversation

Psychology

Hii
Anyone going to canada jan.2022?

Hie 
Just wanted to ask 
I have this rare issue called morphea 
Its been 7 or 8 years and i could not find any doctors who could help, some are like ththey gave me numerous things but they did not work.. Any one who knows anything ? 

Mental Health

Actually I got selected to Seoul national university with full scholarship with accommodation etc. But my whole family including my relatives are doubting me for going  to south Korea like she'll get spoiled easily,what if she get out of hands and bad stuffs and bad mouthing is happening and because of this my parents are getting easily influenced to my relatives. My parents put a condition for me tht if I go for SNU  shld get married to my cousin brother whom I never seen him has my husband or something else and go or else I shouldn't leave the house. I feel so toxic at my home. I literally don't want to get married and I want to be a free bird who can travel all by herself. But now I feel tht they are gonna break my wings and tell me to fly.😭😭😭
I literally fucked up because of this sometimes I just feel like why am I born and my brother is going to USA  into one of the ivy league and no one is questioning him to go but they ate putting all restrictions for me

College

Any gynaecologist here?

PCOD

I am in a very tough spot right now and I feel lost. I had put a lot of effort for 4-5months and gave my entrance exam but ended up getting an average rank. While my friends joined some of the best clgs around different parts of India my results were uncertain. My best friends and my fiancé ended up getting in best clgs in my favourite city. The city I’ve always wanted to study in, Bangalore. I ended up getting some average/ below average college in the city I’ve been born and brought up my entire life, the place I’ve always wanted to leave. I wanted to have a hostel life with my personal space and freedom. But now I’ve to continue living with my family and can’t have to freedom to go on trips and others. I have the option to leave the college and repeat another year but the pain and stress and uncertainty of getting a better rank next year with increasing competition is like a gamble. Also my family is very happy with the result and the fact that I got in my city. Ps- I can’t afford a management seat. The one I got is a private seat which itself is not that cheap. Idk what to do. I have to make my choice by tmw. N need to pay the fees if I am going to join the clg within few days. It is not refundable 

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