My family rejected a guy for marriage as he is not having any background and he is a self made person and very good character, caring in nature. He is 31 and am 25. Itās an formal meet arranged by our family Iāve never met him before. After that I started liking him very much but family told Noā¦ One of my family member told him āYou donāt have any properties donāt expect tat we will give our girlāā¦ I found his fb ID aftr a month and I told him tat I liked him and I asked sorry behalf of my family but he told me aftr tat Incident he stated his self confidence level became Zeroā¦ I seriously donāt know what to do I tried to convince my family but they are not accepting. I started loving tat guy wen I told him if your family talks with us then ly we will proceed we wonāt initiate anything from our side. I love him and his thoughts occupies my mind completely
Turtle @turtle09
Im so sorry to hear about your parents rejecting him. If you love the guy you should definitely be with him. He must be working now right! Just give your parents some time and ask again. Just keep telling good things about him casually. They are the reason you guys met, so try telling the same to them. Hope you find a wayš¤
I tried telling them in many ways but they are not accepting and I am not able to see other guys in his place
Turtle @turtle09
Just give them some more time to subconsciously think over it. Even they will have to unlearn the patriarchy they learnt over the years. They believe that its better and secure if my daughter gets married to a rich guy with a background. But we as their children have to teach them eventually that that is not the truth. Give them time to think and ask again differently without bringing up his name or his topic. For example you can debate a bit on your views on marriage.
Turtle @turtle09
Hope this helps somehow. Do let me know if u find a way.
Turtle @turtle09
Not to scare you off and all but I went too fast with my relationship and broke up now because of many issues other than this particular one. Hope you find your way out of this. š
Sureā¦ Thank you