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Anonymous

My ex recently hit me up he was writing stuff like. “I am overprotective of u as I don’t wanna hurt u” and “I can’t lose u again” and some random flirting every now and then my friend told me he now flirts with everyone it means nothing for him I didn’t care since I had no feelings other than friendship for him anyways so I continued talking to him it got really awkward once when I sent him a heart by accident I joked that it was meant for someone else and he got really possessive then we got into a argument and he mentioned the guy he was insecure about during our relationship and said that I should go talk to that dude instead of him. And now he’s suddenly ignoring me all again. It hurts cuz I thought we were friends and at a time I was emotionally vulnerable I ended up telling him a really big secret of my life and now it hurts. What does this dude actually wants I’m confused and sad thanks to him once again

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Oh hey, i had a same ex as urs tho ngl he was insecure as well by his looks but uk at one stage if the guy/girl is insecure while they are dating someone tbh if they can’t love themselves like yk “self love” yeh then they can’t love anybody else i realised it after breaking up w him, and tbh u barely should be friends w ur ex cuz all they want is attention and yeah it is really hard to move on from someone but it’ll be good. I have moved on too. So yeh but now thats all upon u it was my suggestion as i have already suffered from it so yeah sis good luck :)!

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Anonymous

Thankuuuu I have also moved on and am gonna block him.

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Dont date immature people

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Crispy noodles @crispynood...

In my opinion it’s not a good idea to stay friends with your ex because it will be difficult for both of you to move on. This person seems very insecure and maybe you should try reminding him that you are not in a relationship with him anymore so he shouldn’t feel threatened by other people in your life and you value their friendship but it doesn’t mean that they can dictate who you want to be with. Tell him clearly that you don’t want to flirt with him and it makes you uncomfortable and you only see them as a friend and will be there for them.

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