Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

My ex boyfriend is texting me saying that he is only my friend. He knows that I want to find a valuable man and also with a good income, and he texted to me today that to not think about my self that I am the most beautiful , or that I am a Queen and that I can find the coolest men…because I am pretty but not the most beautiful and he said that I need to go to the gym , because girls that are having like an example a rich man have boobs, ass, and a lot of stuff invested into them.I replied to him to stop talking like that and his piggy behavior and he said that ohh ohh I am just honest with you, I talked with other men as well who know you and only you think that you are so great, but in real you are pretty but not like the most beautiful and a Queen. And I said to him that I can think about myself how I want , and its not his job to learn me how to think about me. Because with or without gym I am still worthy for the best things in life. Do you think a man that is a real friend would have said such kind of comments and acting that oh no, I am just honest and he says that he wanted to encourage me to go to gym and so on. But I felt insulted , instead of encouraged. What do you think about that? Thank you