My ex approached me and I said that I m not willing to have any relationship but am open for frndship and for this he is blaming me that I am not trying to save our relationship and I m making his life hell…I am not getting wether i am wrong or is he making me bad guy in my own eyes
This is gaslighting, if you don’t want anything with your ex, be it friendship don’t do it. He is making you feel bad for protecting yourself that’s absurd. Don’t think on this much just cut all ties if you want to without feeling guilty.
He was my best friend once and I do care for him but we are not good at relationship…but we are really good frnds…I just think that he is only attached to me and is not ready to move on and I want to help him but somehow I cant
See not all relationship we make are supposed to last. It’s the nature of life. I think you and him both should move on and sometimes maybe distance helps more than being there. And sometimes being nice people, they still become toxic for us. I mean you are already suffering like this…