My boyfriend of almost two years has friendzoned me “subconsciously”. Covid 19 and the lockdowns caused us to stay at home and away from each other. Basically a long distance relationship. And it’s been a year since covid spread. I’m just finding out that I have been treated like a friend for the past so many months especially the ones when we couldn’t meet. Apparently that’s his coping mechanism. For months I knew something was wrong but I never thought it could be this. I did try talking to him before and he said it was stress, anxiety, family problems or college. Last night I finally realized what it is and he didn’t deny it neither accept it. Of course he feels bad but I literally love him so much and I did so much for him as his girlfriend. I feel betrayed. I need advice what to do next.
Im sorry you’ve to go through this. Probably talk things out on if he needs break/space or he legit wanna breakup. You should be prepared for it. I know you’ve invested in this relationship but if it ends, there’s no point putting yourself out there trying to hold it all alone. I believe you’re brave and you’ll handle it well. The love you’ve given will somehow return to you. We’re here for you. Sending love ❤️
