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My boyfriend of 5 years in which the present 2 years are long distance has suddenly ghosted me. I have no means to connect to him as we are in different cities. Also not responding to the social media apps. How long should I wait before dating again ??

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Anonymous
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First of all is he alright like fine and everything. Please make sure of that before dating again lol

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Anonymous
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Ya that’s important

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Anonymous
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Yeah he is fine as he is in constant touch with our mutual friends.

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Anonymous
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Then there is a way to contact him. Why don’t you ask them to ask him, to contact you and if he refuses. He can fuck himself and you should move the Fk on. Do whatever it takes u to move on but don’t get into a relationship right away. It’ll give u no time to heal and understand your needs and why did you put up with such a person.
Take care, good luck

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Anonymous
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Why you are so desperate for dating someone
Dating is easy , working out things hard
Call him

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Anonymous
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Why should I call him always??

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Anonymous
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This is a toxic reply. Block this fkr as well.

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Anonymous
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Don’t break others relationship

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Anonymous
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Tell in detail

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Anonymous
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Fuck him. Go on a fkn date!

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Anonymous
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Really. Should I not wait anymore??

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Anonymous
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If he has done this previously then it’ll be a different approach and if it’s the first time maybe wait a week or so and then go on a date or better yet, help yourself grieve and move on. Moving on doesn’t have to mean dating another. You can just heal and figure out what you actually want in a relationship first. Or just go on couple of dates if that helps you calm down your anxieties and abandonment issues.
But if you think there could be a problem and he’s not responding or something because he’s having a difficult time himself then you know better. If you think this person deserves your empathy and understanding and he’s given you the same before so waiting for a month also can be the case.
So because I don’t know the whole sorry I’ve given you possibilities of what u can do

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