My boyfriend of 1 year ( 19) first didn’t at all agree on crop tops but then I (20) had a huge burst out so he’s now “agreed” BUT the crops tops that don’t look like bra and shorts that are mid thigh range which I find something furious. My shorts a lil shorter than mid thigh but nothing of proactive clothing so obviously again I have a fight with him to which he say ’ he will compromise because I am making a big deal out of this and that I won’ and also he stated aren’t clothes supposed to cover body and then if I say its normal hes like I m not judging others but want my girlfriend to be a lil modest and I m like you know and saw my pics before dating me so you’re just asking me to change to which he replies can’t ppl change in a relationship and that out of respect for him can’t I not do it.
I am just so fuckimg attached to breakuup and should I ?
And the thing is he says I m the first person he opened upto so I made him feel okay to cry earlier he used to just forget about it and now I broke his defenses and he keeps crying and I feel bad about it
Ask him do you love me or my clothes and my body?
I dont see anything wrong with it tho, he’s just trying to be protective of you as a man, and i do agree with him on being modest here, when you are in a relationship there’s some modesty and decency that you should be adapting to because of course relationship comes at a cost, for example when you are single you can go around and flirt or do whatever you like with the opposite sex but when once in a relationship you have to give up on all that fun and stuff cuz you got more important and beautiful thing here on your hand, if this is the only reason arising for you to break off a WHOLE relationship maybe you should already do cuz i can assure you, you aren’t ready for it yet and you gon break it off soon for another silly reason if not for this.
The man is protective coz he loves you. Nothing wrong with that. Only he should have the right to see you properly and others shouldn’t. Otherwise it doesn’t make sense.
