My boyfriend n I live at dofferent time zones…
We fighting daily since the time he reached there expect for few days to be precise…
Now yesterday marked the first year we met and we r still fighting…
Now I feel completely dettached with him…like litrelly…what shud I do, fix it or move on?
I can’t even think of dating another person because I don’t have the energy to do it and I can’t think of anyone else in his place
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I guess my mental health is decorating…
Muhammad @mani007
Toh relationship krna hi kyun h? Find someone who matched your vibe and be with him as a friend, makes new friends These relationships sucks.
Initially things ver quite fine
Raj Chauhan @raj1403
Take a decision for yourself as well as your partner.
If you continue you are draining him too emotionally.
Long distance can become hell in long run.
Please talk to him about taking a break and continuing the relationship when one of you can relocate in future.
Ask him if he wishes to continue.
Please do something which is good for both of you.
Thanks for ur suggestion…helpful :)
Sorry??
Raj Chauhan @raj1403
Please ignore that is someone who is not apathetic towards you
Raj Chauhan @raj1403
The pleasure was all mine.
Both of you can together discuss things. If you both are serious and wish tobe together for life then put efforts else take a break and see how things work. Worst case break up . Sometimes you have to walk away for goodwill of the other person too
tim tim @timtim
Ikr …can’t believe get to heard such things in this forum.quite ironical
Raj Chauhan @raj1403
Oh ok
tim tim @timtim
Tera probelem kya hai bhai…tujhe pucha kya…if u can’t help then don’t reply or give ur opinion.
Priyansh Garg @priyansh98
Take a break( not break up) try to figure things out in life without him. Dont be in any other relationship( i am sure you can so that?)
After a month or two you both will realise whats right and whats not.
varun singhal @monsieur
Try asking him directly
Arshia @woof_it_out
If it’s worth it then why give up ? You have different time zones clearly it is long distance. You both will have to put efforts na ! Try to talk to him with a calm mind with sweet words describing how much you love him and try to find ways to communicate more . Like finding a common time at which you both can call or video call daily . Send each other a streak or a picture of everything you do like drinking coffee , waking up, going to college etc etc this will help you guys stay connected.
tim tim @timtim
Thank you that’s very helpful and very kind words.:)
first of all ur mentle health matters more than anything…just be calm…and if he knows he s disturbing ur mentle health…still he does same…than he s not the one
its just a phase of your relationship which is there in every relationship just dont give up things or people u love there is bad phase in everyone life which will pass so stay strong and trust the process 😊
punjabi BOγ @need
You to do something on this…if you don’t do …i stuck on one place and blame your self .feel alone , depression and other problem you faced…u have to choose what you want…u have to move on …and start the new chapter of your life…but if you want…or u can live single and happy also…when time come u meet some one .on right time
Ask yourself the question wheather you can live without him or not
