Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

share your deepest feelings and emotions in a safe and supportive environment.

⚕️Depression

🧑Anxiety

😰Stress

💗Relationships

Create Thought

RelationshipsThought

👀
Anonymous

My boyfriend is feeling annoyed and irritated about something since the past 2 days and he doesn’t know what’s happened to him. When I ask him if I’ve done something or if he’s mad at me he says no it’s not like that, he’s not annoyed with anyone it’s just something’s bothering him and he doesn’t know what. This is making him not talk to me properly like he does and it’s making me feel super weird too. Can someone tell me whether I should give him some space for a few days or confront him and tell him to sort his feelings?

🏚
🏘
👀
14 replies
@ashokbabubatchala

Nah don’t leave him to his space. He feels like you don’t care about him. Better sit down once and talk all open heartedly.

👀
Anonymous

I’ve been trying to get him to talk since the past 2 days. All he says that it’s nothing to do with me or anyone in particular he’s just feeling weird.
He’s done this before too when he’s ignored me for 3/4 days because he just didn’t want to talk to anyone at that point.
After a few days he admitted it was wrong of him and he shouldn’t have ignored me like that. He was busy and ignored me for a month straight in feb this year. I’m so tried of this that I feel like giving him his space for a few days without any contact but yeah maybe I should try again

@ashokbabubatchala

Try again
Get a bit emotional infront of him and say that you can’t see him this way and finally ask his prob

👀
Anonymous

Okay thanks

🏚
Anonymous

Maybe he have other problems or honestly he may have lost some affection towards you…so try to give him more time…talk with him more…and if he repeats this thing tell him what the problem if you have a healthy reletionship this should do…thank you…smile❤️

👀
Anonymous

Thank you so much ❤️

🏘
Anonymous

I’ll advice to give him space… but just inform that you are there for him.
see he is always iritated about something, so if you him bother him too, he might get more iritatd

👀
Anonymous

Yeah so do I keep texting him or do I not text unless he texts first? I know this is a stupid question but I’m really hopeless here I need all the advice I can get

🏘
Anonymous

nooo its not useless question, I understand your situation.
alright sooo lets just text or I’ll prefer an audio text… tell him that you are giving him space n whenever he feels like you are thr for him.
n aftr tht don’t text, till he ping backk

👀
Anonymous

Okay so I’ll just let him know I’m there for him if he needs to talk about anything and that I’ll give him space

@yellowbench

Hey
Don’t ask any questions just be with him no space, no confronting. Just be there for him accept this change embrace it. Be the same person you are. Give him a hug let him settled his thoughts
I hope this initiate him to share and things go back to normal but make sure to make him understand next time he doesn’t have to do this.
Don’t worry much and be there

👀
Anonymous

It’s almost like a pattern now. He ignores me for a few days or doesn’t talk properly and then he becomes okay and apologies

@yellowbench

I shouldn’t say but might be a attention seeking issue, try not minding it for once. If comes back ask you didn’t notice it’s just a attention problem

👀
Anonymous

Makes sense thanks!

user_group_img

8604 users have benefited
from FREE CHAT last month

Start Free Chat
start_free_chat_cta_image