My boyfriend cheated on me. I forgave him for that but he kept lying about small things always. So today I lost all the patience I had and I messed things up by calling a girl at night whom I thought he was talking to. And called him many many times. He got upset about this and broke up with me. I lost my self respect and dignity and I don’t know what to do.
Why does he get to breakup with me after everything he did to me.
He knew I was insecure about that girl yet kept talking to her. And said she is important to him. That girl uses abusive words with me and all he said was you called her so she can do anything she wants to. I don’t know how to handle all this. I want to shout at him. Hurt him. I don’t know why.
Look, every breakup hurts especially for a girl and at this essence for you. There is no positive in your situation but one: instead of focusing on him or his girlfriend. Focus on you, you say you’re insecure well work on yourself physically and mentally so that you don’t have to be insecure to anyone. Delete their number and delete them from your life… you deserve better🙂
What hurts more is that I always forgave him for everything. Cheating, lying and treating me like trash. But this one time when he had to let go things, he didn’t. Instead he chose to leave me after everything I did for him.
Ab you can’t change anything that happened… but what you can do now is to know that its not your fault…do you really think he deserves you.?
No… the best revenge is cut the ties with him… don’t stalk him…let him do whatever he wants i know its gonna be real hard… but sis a real man never cheat on his woman…so work on yourself…be so much better by Focusing on you…i know you will get the love you deserves
Gaganbir singh @bira13
Sorry to be blunt
1st u r fool that u forgave him many times that means he never changed
2nd if u have friends he has to
3rd if he can not stand for u than he don’t deserve u
4th do u think u r less than any girl
If yes then feel pity About urself cry feel bad as much as u want
How come u loose ur self respect or dignity till u don’t feel it urself
U r beautiful u r strong n u r unique don’t be a fragile items its his loss who lost someone how deeply care and loved him
be happy that u r saved other it would have been even more worst as time passes by
Best Revenge is be happy smiling n keep ur self rocking don’t check up on him ignorance is ur best way to revenge while u post ur story of being happy n beautiful
You acted out of insecurity.
Dont feel guilty about it.
The fact that he failed to keep you secure and the fact that the girl starts cussing you just for calling, tells very clearly that you were right in a way.
Let that asshole go.
He left you cause you called her? He left you cause you were insecure and he couldnt understand? He chose her over you?
Cant you see? You were just played.
Girl, you were cheated on and lied to. And if you were important to him, he would not be considerate about her feelings at the expense of yours.
And ofcourse, you had all the right to feel insecure. And instead of you securing the trust, he goes to leave you.
Shame on him.
Don’t worry about him or what he would bitch about you behind your back.
No one knows your side of the story and those who just believe one side alone are naive.
Stay strong.
Sending you love❤️
