My boyfriend and I (both 20) have been in a relationship for 3 years now. I was always insecure but having a boyfriend who “forgot” to tell me stuff just made it worse . Even the I trust him completely… some things have decreased that trust a little.We were about to breakup last year because 2 of his friends (1 girl and 1 guy) hate me and kept constantly bullying me through sarcasm (taunts) about my insecurities but I he said I deserve better and can’tkeep hurting me. I wanted to give it one last try and I told him I want to confront those 2 friends and I want you to tell them to stay away from my business. We wanted to do this in 2020 but things came up and we decided to push it. It’s 2021 now and he didn’t bring it up once. I did. He said he told them the last time he met them to stay away. But the whole point was him saying it in front of me,with me… which he is read to do again. When I asked him what he told them… he merely said he forgot. I cant stop crying because that conversation was very important to me… such an excuse … after we came to that solution after going through so much… I don’t want to lose him… but I can’t translate every single thing to him… when I told him I need him to remember else we’re done… to my surprise he said do whatever you want to I don’t know but I cant remember the conversation… It’s breaking my heart. He is the most selfless and kind person I’ve met and I love him but. If this is how he wants to sort things out then I can’t see a future with him. I also cant think of breaking up… please help me
Janmesh @janmesh
Hey life is sometimes all about letting people you love go! I’m really sorry but i need to say this leave him and start focusing on yourself because in the end it’s you who is going to get hurt every single time he ignores or say stuff which makes you cry badly and maybe every single day! It’s time to move on my friend and yeah it’s life if it takes something from you it will give you something back but you need to be happy to know what life has for you! So stay strong because moving on is the just easy to say but when you’re stuck in a place thinking about something or someone and not able to get it out you’re going to need strength! And if you need a friend to talk and help you for whole your moving on and healing process feel free to ping me here or text me offsite. I’ll listen to everything till you get it out coz i know this feeling!
