My Boyfriend always asks me to meet him & even I want to meet him but I have restrictions at home so we don’t meet that often. So he spends time with his friends. I don’t know why I don’t like him hanging out with others. It makes me feel so bad that I get to stay at home while he can rome. I know it’s not his fault and if I’ll tell him to hangout with me he will. But the thought that he’s out with friends just murders my mood. I don’t know if I’m being toxic and if I’m being then why?? Please somebody help me figure out why I feel this way and what I should do about it. 😞
Being in same situation but as a guy I can tell you that Nothing can be done!
Talk to him when you both needed asked him to share pictures and enjoy that at least someone is out there! you need to be patient I mean you both (I am sure he always always misses you when he is out with friends).
Baaki toh ni ho sakta kuch
I try so hard not to get upset while talking about his outings with friends. I know it’s not his fault it’s me being super stupid. I just feel I needed to be with him and want his all time to myself. Thnx for replying tho I’ll try 😊
Belle @some1else
are you afraid of losing him?
It’s not like I’m gonna lose him to his bunch of friends. It’s just the feeling that why God why do I get to stay and he gets to go out. Plus it’s like I miss him so much. I wonder whether he misses me too or just forgets about me when he’s out ☹️
Sanket @sanket
You are being jealous which is okay, convey your parents to lose some restrictions
No matter how much I try to convince them it never works… I guess I have to move out in order to get close. 😬
Okay tbh you’re being toxic and somewhat you want all of him for you. Chill girl. Even you know if you want it all at the end nothing is actually yours. So let him be free and enjoy meanwhile find something to engage yourself. Once you’re busy and doing other stuffs , it bother you less .
That’s the thing I do have things that I can get busy with. I have work I have studies. It’s like even with things to keep me busy I’m always thinking about what he must be doing and my mind go back to him no matter how hard I try to divert.
Then create an imaginary person. Give him the face of the guy you like but not the one whom you can actually meet. Think if you’ll end up with him what will your life be like. Trust me this shit works. The more you create imaginary scenarios with that person and make sure that person is extremely good looking or in terms a level higher than your boyfriend. Try doing it and let me know
