My “bf” have been saying some hurtful things like I’m “mentally unstable” because I told him that he likes other girls photos and mines not so much. He doesn’t make me feel loved and I think maybe it’s my fault 😢😔 I’ve been feeling so bad and anxious lately and want to talk with someone. Maybe I’m mentally unstable idk but he makes me feel invalidated and crazy. Im looking for therapy but it’s so hard to find I don’t have a job and that also makes me feel bad. Also I think I might be bisexual or even a lesbian
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
Do you really think u r unstable? And stop thinking negative thoughts don’t believe what others say… You know what you are right?
I’ve been feeling a little unstable yeah but I don’t feel like he should tell me this things like that, do u know what I mean? He’s also called me crazy because I found that he likes and followed girls nudes or “sexy photos”, made me feel so weird and uncomfortable
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
After knowing about him what u said then I think u should reconsider about him bcoz I don’t see he is ur type… No hard feelings just told what I felt
Naina Talwar @no_one8
I can totally understand your situation, but right now I would say that talk to him about how you’re feeling, communication is the key to a healthy relationship. But the way you describe your relationship currently seems to be already toxic. Still,if you want him so badly,talk to him about your feelings with courage and ask him out what’s going on with him,why he’s behaving like this. After that observe how he reacts. If he seems to behave even more badly or maybe if he wants to quit,you better let him go and move on in your life. Trust me,you’ll get someone better,cause a partner is someone who understands you who helps you,who stays beside you,and even if you have some faults in yourself,they help you. When you share your feelings, they try to understand you rather than always blaming you for everything and for your feelings. Insecurities may arise. No relationship is there where there’s not a single insecurity. But communication is most important. And it’s their responsibility to make you understand the truth and it’s your responsibility to trust him if he’s actually innocent. But trust me,don’t stay if it becomes too toxic coz right now it may seem little, but later in the future you’ll be the one to suffer. So first try to sort it out by communicating, that’s probably the best. And I’m just suggesting all these,rest it’s your choice. I hope this helps you 😇
Thank you 😔
If I were at your position id take some time off the relationship. It can’t work out if the partner isn’t supportive and helpful through your journey.
Second, take help if you need it to be a better person and reassess what your priorities are in life.
Last, don’t chase or save something which is a desire as once you have it you won’t be able to sustain it or keep it for long. You need to be ready for it.
Hope this helps
Are you okay? Do you need to talk about it. If you feel like it, its best to break up. Because your not happy in ur relaitionship. Sometimes its best to choose the easier choice and not the harder one, speacialy when we are not ready for it.
He sounds like a shit person.