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My bf broke up with me , nd he keep breaking up with me , he has no time for me, he keeps breaking my heart 🥺💔

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j

It’s time for you to move on.
Look out for yourself.
It’s time for you to be selfish

Anonymous

I don’t know how to live alone without him, this is my 4th relationship nd I’m done with this, I cannot love anyone, i feel lost

j

You’ve come alone in this world and stayed strong till another person broke you up.
And I being a stranger I trust you that you’ll get up strong.
And live it up for yourself not for someday else who don’t even give a flying f about you.
Stand up for yourself
This world is selfish
The only person who will be standing with you till the last breathe is you yourself

Anonymous

You’re totally right about this, bt when you’re alone the thought of ending your life is keep coming, i know I was in toxic relationship where he have no respect for me nd i was taken for granted, how do u deal with this stuff?

j

Ping me somewhere else so that I can try to help you
Would you might talking on any other platform?
And never ever think of ending your life .
Life is the precious gift you’ve received.

Anonymous

But i can not unload my stress on you, you’re really very kind , bt if do wouldn’t it make me a bad person?

j

You’re most beautiful person in this world.
And if you do unload all your stress on me I’ll take it and still help you out of this.
I’ve been there and I know how it feels
So let me help you.

Anonymous

You’re too generous, I don’t know what to say 🥺 i feel like i will cry🥺

j

Please don’t cry I’ll cry too 🥺
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Or Snapchat - jiteshm1993

n

See, if the breakups keep repeating then break up with him. it’s final

and Breakups aren’t a bad thing.
you are figuring what you want, figuring what you like

like out of these 4 breakups, you now for sure know that you dont want these types of people around you and you won’t fall for these people who can break your heart,

you must have learned 50 things too

i have been through some horrible break ups

i am still trying to get over my last one and trust me it does get easier

i hope this helps

n

Also, remember the chair analogy from Dear Zindagi

Anonymous

This was actually very helpful , thank u for taking out time nd help me with this

n

trust me, i know how break up hurts and trust me it will get better
i was in a toxic relationship before that and i did get out of it

let me know if you wanna talk or share or anything feel free
feel free to drop any queries here or anywhere else

just keep talking about it, the more you talk about it the easier it will get

Anonymous

He broke up with me because my childhood friend who lives across me still I hardly ever talk, just msg me about my family health coz we just recoverd from covid so my bf told you cannot have any male friend nd then he left me without even discussing i sent him screenshot, i sent my friend num i hardly ever talk with him like once in 6 months maybe wo bhi just hii nd all, nd my bf keft me for this thing

n

That’s a very toxic relationship, trust me i have literally been there, my ex had a lot of problems when i talked to someone else.

This is toxic and trust me you are way way way happier without him

Anonymous

I’m overly attached to him, you’ve been there na soo how do u distract yourself from him? Or this pain of not understanding

n

I totally understand how you feel and i was super attached in my last one, and super depressed, but one day i decided to make a change in myself because enough is enough.

i am and was a person outside the relationship and i will be an amazing person again!! because it is my life

and sooner or later i will find someone who understands me and takes care of me the way i want

and there are many ways to keep oneself busy

Anonymous

Yes you’re right enough is enough, why should we tolerate this kind of behaviour you’re right

n

exactly and there are so many ways, one can get past this

specially in your situation the guy is controlling you which is horrible. so dont worry you will get out of it

let me know if you need anything or do you just wanna say something, i’ll try my best