My bestfriend talks to a guy rn. They’ve been talking since December which isn’t long at all lol. He had asked her to be his gf twice and she said no because she said she wants them to continue to get to know each other. They still talk but they’re NOT TOGETHER. She asked me if she should cut him off or not if he doesn’t give her a gift, even if it’s just a written letter, or acknowledge her at all??? She thinks it’ll show that he actually likes and care about her and feel like if he doesn’t then he don’t really care too much for her. 

I personally think it would be nice of him but if not it’s not really that deep cause again they’re just talking 🤷🏼‍♀️. He’s not obligated to do so. 

*DONT BE MEAN/RUDE PEOPLE*

Crush

Heyy ,i had a relationship thats been goin on and off for the past 3 years and i dont really know how to go about it , its kinda unhealthy , theres no good communication when i argument happens , he just let's me sleep whenever we have a fight and he broke up with me in between of a fight due to the frustration , its been goin on as a loop , i love him very much and care for him but how much i can do right .

Relationships

Days have passed.. months have passed we still only talk and talk ... And I love him a lot, he loves me as well .. after a misunderstanding we are back again ... We never proposed eachother neither are we in relationship but he cares a lot for me I think and ik I care for him... I love him from the core of my heart, I pray for him everyday even when we were not talking for around 2months I still prayed for him, for his happiness, for his wellbeing never really prayed for him to come back .. doesn't matter he stays with me or without me I just want him to be successful, happy and fine ❤️
~Will love you always my monster 

Love

I am not able to keep him out of my mind after breakup. Deep down i just keep waiting for his his. I am just hoping that he will msg and everything will be sorted. At the same time i know that the relationship wasnt good for me and this false hope (that he'll message) is just going to slow down the moving on process. I feel trapped. What do i do.

Breakup

Reconciling with a friend 

So a friend and I had a fallout nearly an year ago. This is a guy friend, we have a purely platonic equation.

The fight was because he got into a habit of interrupting and that used to annoy me. One day when we were heading out, I called him on it and he made pure excuse for it that he didn't feel heard as a child etc, which felt defensive to me

I just let it slide, since we about to spend the day together. We come back, I'm still upset and then we have a conversation.  He said apologised, but I don't recall. 

So this escalates again, and we call each other up to clear things only to cut the call off lol. I txt him safe jounrey and he says thanks, thats it.He then goes on his trip that I helped him with and when he comes back.  He does text me after coming back, but ig I still had resentment bc I didn't think he had actually apologised

Frankly, it's been a year nearly and I cont recall anymore. Assuming that he did, and the fact that he was apologetic about it later, I wanna give our friendship another go. What do I say/ text to him?

Confusion

Hi. 
i just feel dumb. thinking about past relationship that didn't work out for the whole night.
we both are stranger at first. but then after several times my friends and i dine in at the same restaurant,he gave me his number. He seem nice untill he make me feeling loved. He decided to make me as his gf.
But why at the time my love started  grow, he suddenly being silence then we became stranger again. Yesterday, i just heard from my friend, he replied on my friend's status whatsapp, "she is my life". she is referring to his ex fianceè. Then why he approached me at the first place if he basically does not even try to moving on from his ex fianceè?
i couldn't stop thinking why i have to go through all of this and the dumbass part is why am i easily accept him?!. Starting from there, i believe that all men does not being serious in relationship. 
Thanks to him, now i am too scare to start loving someone again. 

This guy and I are friends with B. 
We would occasionally hangout, chill and make out. And both agreed we want nothing more. 

We would text everyday and he started opening about his feelings , life problems, how his day went.. and often message me during his work hours. It was weird at first but then I got used to it . We had our inside jokes. 

Now, all of a sudden he is acting aloof, distant, it lacks the previous vibe. Only send one word responses. 

Now, the thing is I don't really care about this or that I am hurt, it's just i feel like he is losing interest, he told me he was having some family related stress..bt that happens. He don't make inside jokes now..nor does he send random gym selfies, instead he be sharing stuff on insta... 

What should I do to get him back to that vibe? Or should I do anything at all? Or maybe it's time i move on?

Any tips?

Adulting

I am in a relationship and it's going good. But as my partner was not able to give me time because of his professional commitment I felt very lonely.. I recently got a call from my ex and we started talking.. Almost evry alternative day for an hour and i felt occupied by something but today just  now I was having a conversation with him and I ended up kissing him virtually and i feel terrible for this.. I feel as if I cheated my boyfriend and this burden is not letting me sleep.. It feels very heavy.. May be while talking to my ex I got attracted and I started thinking about him and this ended in this way.. But just after I kissed him I realised no this is not what I want, it didn't feel good.. This feeling of cheating on my bf is making me hate myself. I hate myself for not being loyal to him.. I feel like a cheater 

*sooo, I want to share some things right now..last night my ex texted me saying "I miss you" and that bought so many emotions and memories flooded together that I couldn't control myself. He says he wants me back but I know I deserve much better..the fact I also don't want to loose him is making it much more difficult for me. I don't know what to do.. please share opinions.

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