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My bestfriend recently got into a relationship n keeps on talking about her bf to me n I get irritated coz its her bf not mine…I’m not interested in knowing what he says or does…we’re bestfriends but that doesn’t mean I’ll have to listen about her bf all the time…n when i told her that don’t talk to me about ur bf as i feel weird n its pointless she said that you’re jealous… I’m not jealous its just irritating to hear same things regularly…he is her bf but to me he is a stranger…I’m thinking about talking to her properly regarding this…I hope I’m not wrong

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Anonymous

Absolutely not …you are not wrong. Atleast you said her that you are interested atleast you are straightforward person I love it.

Anonymous

Its just it felt weird when she said you’re jealous…she is my bestfriend I’m happy for her always but that doesn’t mean I should listen about her bf everyday

Anonymous

There are not people around us the way we want. Everyone has there own way of thinking. She probably feels happy with it but she doesn’t know about you probably I mean what you like bla bla . She said that you are jealous because she wanted to hear some good words about her bf she is doing it all because of her own happiness . You should just ignore it and tell her it’s not about I’m getting jealous …itz all about I don’t want it or I don’t like it ,…

Anonymous

Yes I’ll do that. Thanx 😊

You should talk it out and maybe say what u feel when she talks about him

Anonymous

Yes. I’ll talk to her.

Anonymous

Just convey your message that a realtionship is meant to be private and she telling you about him feels like you are between them just tell her that you don’t like to listen stories of two close person and she should not share that much detail however you can just listen to very lil bit of things and can tolerate that

Anonymous

But then she says that if I’ll not share with u then to whom will I share…n I’m like I’m not interested at alllllll…then she says you’re jealous

Anonymous

She’s immature but ik it just become irrelevant for you talking about this stuff as you don’t have anything to reply back and there’ll be time when you’ll be facing awkward silence but you cannot do much bout it try to not show that much interested maybe she’ll start sharing less then

Anonymous

Okay thanx.

Anonymous

I will let you know the truth. These people like your friend they seek assurance from others. Like they want to hear “you guys are perfect, so cute together blah blah blah nonsense stuff”. Couples who are happy together will keep things personal and private (not secret). They won’t need validation from others. I think your friend just wants to show off and needs nice words of their relationship from you just for her satisfaction.