Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

share your deepest feelings and emotions in a safe and supportive environment.

⚕️Depression

🧑Anxiety

😰Stress

💗Relationships

Create Thought

SadThought

Renata @renataismyname

MY BEST FRIEND JUST REJECTED ME

I met Erick 3 years ago, since then we’ve become best friends. We talk every day on the phone, and tell each other everything. For a while now (like a year) I’ve known that I am in love with him. This is no crush or infatuation, I really love him. It hadn’t been a problem, so I decided to conceal my feelings. However, he moved away to London to study his masters. We kept calling each other daily, but now the conversations involved him telling me about his dates and sexual encounters. It started to be too much, and I felt like I was not enough for him. After asking him many times not to tell me that sort of things (but he still kept at it) today I told him why I couldn’t hear anymore about his other women. “I know you may not feel the same, and I don’t want anything else to change, but I know I am in love with you and this is making me feel sad and less of a person”. He understood and told me “I’d rather change and adapt than loose you”. But now I’m scared he won’t look at me the same way. I really feel like I can’t loose him. He is my favorite person in the entire world. I’m scared, and very sad. I had a small hope that he would reciprocate… and now I can’t stop crying.

Profile picture for Now&Me member @itsnisu
🏬
5 replies
Profile picture for Now&Me member @itsnisu

Nisu✨🤍 @itsnisu

Broooo first it’s okay u tell him ur feelings but u cant force nyone to chill is he’s choice but he’s happy there so now care bout ur happiness nd may be u should give him space if he has some kind of feelings for uh ( something sometimes) so hope he gonna tell uh nd if ntg change try to move on😁

Renata @renataismyname

I know… just as I had the right to tell him, he has the right to do whatever he wants with that info. Thanks so much for the reply. It really helped telling someone and having responses :)

Profile picture for Now&Me member @itsnisu

Nisu✨🤍 @itsnisu

My pleasure ❤😁 chill bro may be univers have better plan so dont be sad nymore be happy nd keep trust that everything happened for better reason ❤😁 good luck

🏬
Anonymous

hi if he says he doesn’t wanna loose you then you shouldn’t be worried he is your best friend and you trust him right? I think you are overthinking. He still loves you as a friend. I hope you feel better♥️

Renata @renataismyname

thank you so much for this!! You’re right, I DO TRUST HIM. He has never lied before, he wouldn’t start now. Thank you, you really made me feel so much better.

user_group_img

8654 users have benefited
from FREE CHAT last month

Start Free Chat
start_free_chat_cta_image