My best friend is in a relationship from the past month and she only told me about it today because her boyfriend told it to keep it a secret from everyone. Lol, I feel like are we even friends.
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
It happens. Sometimes you have to ignore things like this you know. I understand it kinda hurts. But a new person becomes more important to the people that they really forget about the close once. But they donβt mean any harm or anything so you have to let go and be happy for them.
I think the reason she didnβt tell me was because I hate the boy, he is toxic as hell, clearly cheats my friend with other girls. I mean they are doing long distance but talks once a week. And when he came to the city he didnβt even met her. My friend told me about them now because she is confused. I cannot stress on how much toxic he is for her. π«π«π«π«π«π« sorry for tmi
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
I mean if you know heβs toxic than she also knows that heβs toxic too right? But sheβs still going for it. Let her go, today or tomorrow sheβll get to know what wrong thing sheβs doing. Your job is to help her when she goes down. Be there for her at that time because if the relationship is new none gonna listen to negative facts about their boyfriend. So no point in explaining. Also, itβs okay to share tmi as long as you donβt mind.
Thanks man, this is one of the best advice I got in a long time.
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
Your welcome. Always happy to help.
