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@hinata

My best friend is in a relationship from the past month and she only told me about it today because her boyfriend told it to keep it a secret from everyone. Lol, I feel like are we even friends.

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Shalin Gupta @shalin99

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It happens. Sometimes you have to ignore things like this you know. I understand it kinda hurts. But a new person becomes more important to the people that they really forget about the close once. But they don’t mean any harm or anything so you have to let go and be happy for them.

@hinata
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I think the reason she didn’t tell me was because I hate the boy, he is toxic as hell, clearly cheats my friend with other girls. I mean they are doing long distance but talks once a week. And when he came to the city he didn’t even met her. My friend told me about them now because she is confused. I cannot stress on how much toxic he is for her. 😫😫😫😫😫😫 sorry for tmi

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

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I mean if you know he’s toxic than she also knows that he’s toxic too right? But she’s still going for it. Let her go, today or tomorrow she’ll get to know what wrong thing she’s doing. Your job is to help her when she goes down. Be there for her at that time because if the relationship is new none gonna listen to negative facts about their boyfriend. So no point in explaining. Also, it’s okay to share tmi as long as you don’t mind.

@hinata
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Thanks man, this is one of the best advice I got in a long time.

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

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Your welcome. Always happy to help.

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