My best friend is a person joo over hyper hoo jata haii . I was sorting his work and he was calling mee continuosly and my brother was sitting near mee and he got irritated he has previously also mee that I should stop him and should not allow him to sit on my head but I didn't listen . Now I am feeling that my brother was right . 

I feel like he might have adhd of some sort... he needs your help

Heyy, I feel like your friend might need some help. Did you try talking to him?

This is not the first tym its is happening

Misunderstanding

So few days Back i asked my elder brother for some help and he said ok will figure things out. Its been A week and now he is like i am stuck in my problems i cant help You i Cant Manage everything at once and all. I am frustrated now why he  comforted me that Time and how should i trust Him further for this.

Life

I don't feel so good.
i had just completed my assignment and had decided to go to my parent's room and spend some time before I resume my work. 
I hate the fact that my brother is addicted the online games. and the person who taught him is our dad. 
I don't care if my dad wants to spend more time with my brother. I don't get jealous at all. 
as usual, I started annoying my brother when he was playing with dad.
What made me sad was that he started comparing me to my brother who is six years younger than me that also regarding our intelligence.
there have been so many times when he always finds his son correct when he knows that his son is wrong. 
he keeps on finding my mistakes but not my brothers. it is said that ppl who love u correct your mistakes the most, but I think my dad proved it wrong. 


My brother lost his closest friend 3 years ago - I never met him but it seems like most of my life is spent filling his shoes. My brother expects me to be like him, act as he would, talk as he would - and everytime I fail, he hates me for it. He yells at me, calls me names and treats me like crap. He hates me because I can't be the friend, the brother, he lost. 

Family

The big problem with elder siblings, atleast what i have seen, is that they want their younger siblings to walk in their shoes. They want their siblings to talk like them , think like them , dress-up like them and make them feel bad for not behaving according to them.
I always thought that no matter what i will stay with him but now i am already at a point, after years of pressure, frustration, anger, that i avoid him. I have already decided to not to live under same roof as him. I am sick of his tyranny.
He was the reason for my depression. He is the reason why i always want to stay alone. He is the reason for my pathetic state.
I wish I never had an elder brother.

Frustration

I feel so shit about myself because my elder sibling brother keeps talking me down. He is pedantic about every-single-thing I do, not realizing how much damage he is doing.

He is also an extremely entitled person, and is pushing me to do things "his" way. 

Emotional Abuse

Maybe it's not favoritism. I think my mom favors my older brother always because she knows that he has a weak personality. We, his sibling shouldn't be jealous.

3am Thoughts

In my family my mom and dad work a lot and that leaves me with watching a little brother and sister all the time. Even if my mom or dad is working form home that day or has that day off i still have to take care of my little sister and brother. I have to wake my sister and brother up at 8am and get them really for the day and feed them get them entertained get chores done soave fits between them and do all the things a mom would do. I told my mom that i'm not a mom and a kid and i should not have to blans everything and my mom said that "you ungrateful and all you do is nothing you don't even take care of your brother and sister". I have cared for my sister and brother scents i was 7/8 years old and now im 15 and get yelled at every night becaues i'm a dissepiment in the family my dad and mom always say.

I am not liking this now coz people are taking advantage of me. My brother Wakes me Up at 5 am Every 3 times a week to take care of his child as he goes out with his friends.  I mean no one cares has my sleep Gets distrubed. I cant say anything to him or at home coz he has Given me some money and gifts just to use as every brother does.  This is happening every 2 nd day now. I know i am at fault coz i dnt have a morning job otherwise i would be saved from all this. But no one cares abt me or my sleep and i am hating it now.


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