Ash @heyitsash
My best friend and I used to talk a lot but he recently got into a relationship again with his ex and is now giving me less time… so as now he’s giving me less time and giving the time to his girlfriend I don’t like that I don’t why I’m confused if I have feelings for him or is it normal to feel this way when my best friend is giving his most time to his gf… also I love my boyfriend… we are in a committed relationship since 3 years … I’m confused with what I feel .
Jazzie G @bruce_wayne_
Oh that’s a lot to process.
Ash @heyitsash
Yeah he himself tells me that he’s not able to give me time as earlier but somewhere he seems to be okay with that … and yeah I agree that he doesn’t want to lose his ex again
Jazzie G @bruce_wayne_
I think it’s normal and don’t worry, you’re not catching feelings for him… it’s the insecurities thats kicking in… i feel you. I’ve been there. Always gets a feeling that you’ll be replaced. It slowly fades away. Their lives doesn’t always have to revolve around yours. Let him be. If you are a priority, he’ll definitely find time for you. But that won’t be as long as before he was in a relationship. Reality if often disappointing.🙂🫂
Ash @heyitsash
Yeah you are correct man 🙌 …and I shouldn’t overthink it
Try to spend more time with your boyfriend or other friend maybe?
When my friend got a boyfriend I felt the same cause I was bored and I missed the time we spent together and I didn’t have anything else to do. I didn’t know where to use the energy I used to invest with that friendship .
Ash @heyitsash
We are going in long distance relationship so we barely talk
