Met a girl online. I really like her, but i feel it’s not practical. It’s long distance and also I have trust issues in general. We parted our ways a month ago ig for the very same reason, but I’m unable to forget her. On one side i want to just reconcile and get to know her more, but on the other side I feel it’s just not practical. Can anyone guide me through this?
Shashidhar @shashidhar117
Take a coin and toss.
Not for head / tail.
Just check what your heart is asking for.
Listen to it and follow it.
Good luck 🤞🏻
you know i am literally going through the same feelings for someone right now and all i am doing is trying to just forget the fact that i have feelings for him . he is older to me and i really like him but the problem is that he has this thing in mind that we would breakup and he will loose me also as a frnd . and since this is messed up we r not getting into relationship . but u know wat even i feel that frndship is wya more simple and beautiful than a relationship . but this is not where it ends . thoughts will come abt seeing them with other person getting close but u have to constantly keep saying to urself that ,"its ok , some people are not meant to be together " . i personally feel that we have different roles in other ppls life and same vise versa . so maybe u guys are meant to be frnds so just stay that it is beautiful in its own way . even i am doing the same . just trying to be as normal as possible . and the worst part is we can only share this with someone and this wont reduce the tym of suffering . u will have to go through things until its done . recently i read a post in which it was written " GOD USES THE SAME PERSON TO HURT U AGAIN AND AGAIN UNTIL U R STRONG ENOUGH TO LET THEM GO " and i really felt that .
i hope this helps
