Mentally exhausted…Long distance marriage where husband is now not feeling attracted towards me…Refusing to have a life together…My Parents have emotionally tortured me… I am trying to save this marriage but he seems to not interested and has conditions to love me…Have lost my self respect and everything against his ego and narcissistic behaviour…Mentally emotionally drained…Worst situations when you have no body to help you move out of this marriage…You are forced to stick around and just be in a unhappy relationship💔
Try going to a psychiatrist for therapy…
Are you working. Try becoming financially independent cz god forbid if anything happens atleast u can take care of your own. Or walk out if his conditions become unrealistic to fulfill
I am working and earning well…The problem is i have no one to support me like zero number of people…Parents wants me to be in this marriage and save this…Tried moving out but emotionally tortured by parents…He is ready to move out and doesn’t give any damn fcks to it…With my request he is ready to work on this marriage but the tantrums and attitude and rudeness he has throughout the process of reworking is unbearable…
Then why don’t you move out. I mean I can understand handling parents is not easy but don’t go back to their place. Just move out somewhere else. They cannot force you to stay na. Tell them you are not happy and he’s not behaving well and ur having suicidal tendencies u can emotionally manipulate ur parents to make them agree right. If u have siblings they can help convince also.
No one means single child…Parents are like really old and probably they are giving me threats that if you end something will happen to them and that would only coz of me…I am helpless i know it might sound easy to just move out of it but not…One day my dad told if your mom is going to die that would be coz of your drama and trauma…I sometimes feel the situation that i am in nobody should face it not even enemies…Constantly feeling neglected not appreciated or even treated like worthless human is really depressing…In the outer world i am a strong individual with great interpersonal skills motivating others but inside i am broken not having anyone to help💔
Damn💔💔this is really tough. Parents really shudnt do this. 😢😢😢 I don’t know what to suggest you. You are soo strong to be going through all this and still standing strong. I cannot tell if it’ll be possible for you to move out seeing ur parents reaction but u can seek professional help or therapy wherein atleast you will get to open up and manage ur emotions and might be you will find a solution then. Cz nobody shud feel worthless or underappreciated and if it happens for long enough we believe it to be true. And then we just lose our identity it’s so worse. All our potential just goes down the drain. I hope you find the strength and courage to fight this and I pray you get out of this hell soon! Cz life’s too precious and so are you!
Thank you i really need to hear this…I know i have to fight this alone and i hope that one day when i look back i will proud of the battles i have fought alone…God bless you and thank you for your kind words…I am crying writing this but it certainly helps a lot knowing that what i am going through is normal and there are people who can resonate with this…🙏🏻♥️
🥺🥺 I am glad I could be of help. And I’m sure you will get through these struggles knowing the strong and independent woman you are! There’s no stopping you! It’s just a matter of time that your struggle will be someone else’s survival guide! Keep going 🤗🤗❤️
