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Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend were making out, as I was on periods, I could not get invested in that and wasn’t doing anything, he was very high , and he did not see that I am not interested anymore, he continued, as he finished, he was shocked to see me still and motionless and immediately apologised, he was very apologetic and kept on saying sorry for what he has done, he himself accepted that it was sort of forceful and non consensual even tough I had not said anything during the make out. Ii feel sad and disconnected from him, I love him but I am not feeling okay after this incident, what shall I do. He is a very good person, he is apologizing, trying to make me feel better and even giving me space to sit and think peacefully. he was the most amazing person i Knew, but after this, I am not feeling good. I don’t want to lose the most beautiful experiences of love and life by losing this relationship, but I am scared, is this incident worth forgiving and forgetting, will I feel connected to him again, He is very sorry,he says he won’t do it again ever , should I give it a chance or just leave him, please help

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@supreme

If there is trust and mutual respect
Don’t over think

Make sure it won’t be repeated

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Anonymous

will try to. I feel bad

@supreme

If personal space is respected
And if people take it for granted

They can do it again

Don’t be weak be strong

Don’t make decision with your inner weakness

If you didn’t like what ever happened

Give up if you strong enough

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Anonymous

Yes, I am feeling better after reading this. Thanks, I will try to take care of myself first

@supreme

Great , don’t overthink

Don’t break your head

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Anonymous

Look I’ll speak really honestly
Lust and horny feeling is something which is dominant over every other things
And lust is Just uncontrollable
He’s really embarrassed and apologizing as you said
So I guess you should just move on and forget
He really loves you and I think If you’ll leave him he’ll be sad
Don’t do this jussttt for a small incident
Accept his apology and tell him to not repeat it again
Ik it is tough for you to overcome something like this
But I can feel him he was helpless at that time and now he’s regretting his moves
Anyways I really feel you should just forget it
He’s already so sorry about it na and if he himself is saying sorry then he’s mature too understand these things and he knows he’ll not repeat such kind of things in future too

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Anonymous

Your reply has made things clear for me. I am feeling like I can forget this, but it may take some time. But I feel, the feeling of love towards me is it less than the feeling of lust/getting horny, does he love me less?

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Anonymous

girl idk if you should leave him or not but i think if a man can’t think of you as love in a vage of lust, if he doesn’t prioritize your concern and comfort, he is not worth it man! i understand this is uncontrollable sometimes but it is not more than that! a man should respect you and your phase as periods are hardest days for a girl! you know it right! real thing can be seen there!
otherwise! do what you think is good! and better for you

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Anonymous

I feel terrible, really bad. Thanks for your reply

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Anonymous

My first time was like that too… He didn’t even asked me before doing that to me. It was our first time & we both lost it together. I wanted to save it till marriage… So I was upset, he didn’t even ask for my permission… He said he couldn’t control… After that I had questioned in my mind if he really loves me or he is just after my body…
It all happened 2years ago… And I am still deeply madly in love with him… We still make out… He is a good person and treats me really well… And now I know if I say no to him he wouldn’t even dare to touch me…
As long as your partner is a good person,everything will be just fine…

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Anonymous

i think it’s worth giving a chance when we are in love

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Anonymous

Yes definitely

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Anonymous

People changes with time give some more time to your relationship mutual understanding increases with time.if he has lust more than love than it can change to love more than lust with time and more understanding

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Anonymous

There is nothing to forgive here
He just loves you and could not resist
I dont think you should broke up with him …he seems to me in love with you and your body also! Especially that he asked to forgive him…dont lose a relationship for something like this …

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Anonymous

To be honest don’t loose him

Sanket @sanket

Wait, seems like a normal incidence, I guess you have taken it too far in your head. He apologized, right? And he didn’t know about your cycles, so why are there such thoughts of going away from him.
Honestly, this is an overreaction, accept his apologies and just get back, so easy!

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Anonymous

Will try to. Thanks

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Just take a break. You need to think away from him.
Tell him you need space. Spend some time alone and then make your decision.

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Anonymous

Thanks dear ! I feel better after listening to everyone here, I think I can take a better decision now

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Anonymous

Just talk to him about how you feel!!
I’m sure he’ll understand…
See his reaction and then decide whether you leave him or not.
But he seems like a nice guy give talking a chance.

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Anonymous

I did, He is still regretful and wants to make things better, I am trying to move on from this and give our relationship another chance

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