Me and my boyfriend are in relationship from past 1 year we are in long distance, now in the starting he was making so much efforts and giving his energy, and also I was giving the same efforts, but now he has changed fr past 6 month, I’m sensitive at first when I get hurt he took care of me and now he just says like this is your own issue deal with it I can’t do anything, whenever I say to give him energy or effort he make up some issue, he is having hard time but giving his time since 6 month, I supported him in everything I stayed for him, but he left me everytime when I was crying, hurted. He says everything will be okay trust the process, how can I be anymore patience, I’m trying to learn him being good for this relationship I’m making compromise but never compromises, and whenever he wants something he get the way, and I can’t see people hurt due to me, after every fight I’m the one who apologies, make it up, I want to have serious chat with me now what can I say that will give him some sense
sis clearly he knows you will come back to him no matter what he does or says. Always being available for someone makes them delusional that you will always stay no matter how they treat you. clearly you see he ain’t worth it, don’t hold on just because you love him. know your worth ,you deserve someone who gives you the same energy , same kinda love, same amount of effort. love and efforts should be mutual .you giving efforts for someone like him is totally exhausting yourself emotionally and mentally. move on sis hope you find real love<3
maahhiii @impropixie
Just ask yourself first that what did you always want from your partner in a relationship but now you are not getting, did you ever wish ki tum ya tumhara partner compromise kare ya adjust kare kisi bhi tareeke se, nhi na? toh abhi bhi mat karo adjust ya compromise. confess whatever you feel to him and then see where it goes.
see girl I would say confront him because sometimes there are difficulties in someone’s life you should talk with him about your issue. After answering you if he still didn’t change then I would recommend you to leave him. and find someone who is better for you.
Sis clearly he thinks since he got you now, he doesn’t have to put any effort since he knows how you care n love for him. My one piece of advice will be to communicate with him about how you are feeling and if that doesn’t work go ahead and breakup because you deserve so much more than that treatment.
Always put your mental health first!
