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@npa

LOW, LOST, SAD feel like running away from everyone and everything

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Potato @whoispotato

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Hey…
Would you like to talk about it

@npa
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I don’t know what to do abt my marriage. Married a man I really loved but not able to adjust with the family. I am too modern for them and they are too narrow minded for me. Don’t know if I shall get out of this relation or silently adjust and get frustrated

@siyash
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Can I ask one thing? Does he love you too? I mean if yes then he should also put out some efforts to make their family understands about your background and thought process.

@npa
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He does try to put efforts but his own mother is too orthodox He wants to put my voice infront of other family members but all goes in vein because my husbands mother supports everyone except me. she made us live in her village saying she will not move to rented property in city untill we buy our own home. I feel suffocated here. they have this policy of Men before Women. I being a daughter in law have no right to speak in any matter. I hate my life. i think of harming myself as i have nowhere to go. It was my decision i had a love marriage cant tell my mother about it because she already sick since long. I Just want to get out of this pathetic life. I have lost confidence, I have put on a lot of weight due to stress, Nothing makes me feel happy, I am always anxious when i have to meet his relatives. The women in the house stare me like i am from some other planet. if i dont have a duppatta on my head it becomes a sin and there daughter keeps roaming in casual clothes (tshirt, payjama).

@siyash
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Please don’t take me otherwise. I am going to say something which you might not like. But you should have discussed all these things before getting married to the love of your life. There must be some solutions to your problems harming yourself will take you no where. Just think about your parents if you can’t tell your current situation to them then what will happen to them of they gets to know about your self harm. They will feel pity and I am sure you never wants to make them feel that way. So please instead of thinking like that think about how to get away with the situation you are into it right now. I know saying is very simple but trust me there must be a way to sort things out. Even I am into something which is not right. I married a man who used to love me I guess now all went in vein like I feel he doesn’t love me anymore things are getting complicated in our relationship. I have a daughter a lovely darling daughter. I never ever wanted to stay away from her but now I can’t think about to get away from this depressing state of mine.

@npa
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I never got to know his family before marriage. Met his mom when we got engaged. Many people warned me about this decision however, nobody said it straight. I am now not able to adjust with such backward thinking. tried hell lot of things.

jay @jay12

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Hey what happened

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