(Long one)…Is it wrong to feel disappointed if my relationship is not going as I imagined it would go? I mean I know its NEVER flowers and fairytale, but still one would expect it to be emotionally supportive at some level. Everyone’s busy, even I’m busy with work, but I try to change some of my habits and routine to make better time for him. Whereas he sleeps till 1 in the afternoon (bcz his shift gets over at 1 am, gets full 10-12 hrs sleep) and then again leaves for office at 2 pm. I tried to talk this issue to him, he shuts me off by saying ‘I told this when we were starting this relationship that I’ll be busy mostly’. When I try to show my anger by replying in one word to his texts he says that ‘it’s a turn off for him’ and then himself starts talking less. I don’t know if this’ll work out or not, bcz I don’t like taking shit from people. This is irritating me too much now and its only been like 2.5 months.
Hey you need to figure this out! Simple! Don’t think about attachments! It’s just you have to think about yourself! I have been through just like same you can say.
That’s what I’m trying to do. I want this to work out with him. How can I convey this to him that I’m annoyed. Today he has called 3-4 times and I’m not picking his calls just texting him that I’m out (although i’m at home). Trying to do the same as he does, trying to look way to busy to him. It’s not a good feeling though, i’m feeling guilty.
But buddy if you feel trapped then it’s the right thing for you!
I think maybe showing him what he does to u would help me feel what u feel. But don’t let it go on for long , just a small tryout that’s all and if u still see no change then ig the only option is that u try to busy ur self so that u don’t have to think about it .
Also one thing I can mention is that if he can just send u texts randomly in the times were he can’t text by filling u in with his day ahead and his plans/feelings for the day , that would be much better then not receiving any text at all !
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Yeah, I’ll figure out soon if I’ll be able to handle it or not.
