Lies. Lies. Lies. I feel betrayed. Today I was gonna study whole night and wasn’t gonna sleep so I messaged my best friend at 3 am asking whether she’s free or not( she usually stays awake at night ).
She said she can’t talk bcoz her dad is scolding her and telling her to keep her phone aside. After 5 mins I called her (just messing around) and I see that she’s on another call. I was sad. Because why did she lie. And then I confront her about this and she lies again that her phone is on do not disturb mode as if I’m dumb. DND just mutes the calls never shows that the person is on another call. And then when I said send ne a screenshot if you are not talking to anyone and she changed the subject. I mean if you don’t wanna talk to me just say it to my face …WHY LIE?!..
I know this isn’t a big issue but she has lied to me in the past and the lies are just growing. What should I do.
Understand the fact that inspite of being your best friend she have her personal life too.
N if you gonna confront her, doubt on her then obviously she won’t feel like sharing things with you.
Give her space
I wasnt upset on the fact that she was on a call with someone …I was upset because she lied to me. And as for space I do give her space and then she thinks I’m ignoring her. I never interfered in her personal life . I just feel sad that she needs to lie to ke to do things.
This happened to me too I felt really insecure and really anxious because trusting someone and then thinking they were really just using me. But I feel like there’s also a chance that she wasn’t trying to hide anything and you guys had a misunderstanding so try asking her again but try not to be too pushy and bring it up naturally and try to stay firm and wait for her reply even if she changes the subject, but if you feel she really doesn’t wanna talk about it then try to understand her and leave her be. And if you really think she’s doing something behind your back then it’s best to keep your distance from them and just treat them normally but don’t get too personal with them. I developed trust issues and now I’m really anxious about little things but I think you should just keep calm and don’t overthink and just wait for her to open up about it or just ignore it and just try interacting with other people and keep your mind off it!!!
Thank you so much I’ll confront her and then move on😊
