Letās talk suggestions.
I will take a poll, and whatever the result, will be my decision.
My bf recently broke up with me because he canāt let go of my past, which he knew about since the beginning.
The breakup was really ugly and embarassing because he used foul language called me all kinds of names and disrespected me in general.
To be completely honest, we were together once, he broke up with me for someone else, 2years went by, and i got involved with his close friend after 2 years of us breaking up. The close friend and I didnāt work out so we ended things.
Then my bf and i reconnected, and I told him about my involvement with his friend. And he said his love for me is greater than any of this.
We were together for quite some time, were about to get married and families were involved, and now he ended things with me just like that.
I donāt know how to make the families understand and I donāt know what to do?
Should I go back to him and try one last time or should I just move on and get married to whoever my parents choose for me?
Kushagra @kushgpt
Take your time think about what went wrong
Talk to him why he choose too call off
And analysis what u should doo
From my point of view no matter the case he should never be disrespectful.
Anger doesnāt give you licence to do say anything also leaving you at such crucial time. Even if you do get married it seems like he canāt let go of your past and the fights will only get uglier.
So take your time, move on and donāt just settle yet for anyone your parents choose.That decision should be yours
Oh my god, NO! He sounds like a terrible guy. If you go now, heās gonna repeat this behavior in future knowing very well that youāll come back to him. Have your respect and walk away.
carpe diem @raunak99x
Last advice for you, donāt force a relationship ā¦
Because relationship is commitment not an agreement š
I think you should not go back to himā¦ I mean if he cannot let go of the past then it will definitely bother him in the future as well then whats the point?