Lately i am been feeling depressed and sad lately . Itβs getting bad .
My relationship Problems : My bf really love me and i love him so much . We met online and never meet IRL .However , i canβt be with him because i lied to him about my age . I am 17 and he is 21 . I told him i was 25 .
My ex : I show my ex bf my body and i regret it . Everyday , i think what if those pics get posted online .
High expectation : I am one of the smartest girl in my town . I think i am well known for my brightness . I have been stress out so much , that i am beginning to fail . I just did an exam , and i am worry that i might fail . I will not be able to go collage soon.
My online crush : A guy have a crush on me and we are the same age and have every thing in common . Every time i am down and hopeless , he makes me happy . A few days ago , He confess his love for me and we had to be apart . This made me more depressed .
My depression: There are other reason why i am depress but itβs personal .I canβt keep this in me anymore .i have to let it out . I took a depression test and i notice i suffer with severe depression .Now i feel like dying π₯π₯π₯π₯π₯
Coming out : I am bisexual and my mom is homophobic . Every time she heard the word gay ,she will be mad or she thatβs wrong . In my country ,i can get arrest for supporting the LGBTQ community . π₯π₯π₯π₯π₯
Okay so i thinkk first of all u shoulf just come out of all of ur relationships. Because major part of your depression is ur own made.
As u said u r bright, just focus on urself right now. Work on what u love doing. And start loving urself.
thanks for the advice and help π€ππ
i hope you are safe, and dont worry about the pictures, you can fike a cyber crime complaint if anything bad happens, and honey, itβs illegal for you to date an adult, itβs not his fault because he doesnt know your age, you should tell him and if he doesnt wait until youβre atleast 18 then hes not the right person for you. Also, go see a professional. dont believe online tests. they could one hundred percent be wrong. but dont invalidate your feelings either. see a mental health professional and try to get help. i hope youre doing better now.
thanks for the advice and help πππ€
Kanak @ana02
Okay, first of all, check my profile for my replies on young people and love.
Secondly, I too have sent nude when I was 17, so I understand.
On your depression, try getting professional help, if not, be around someone supportive and caring.
On your coming out, congratulations, finding yourself is not a easy task. As of your mother, donβt tell herπ€·π»ββοΈ. You donβt have to tell your identity to everyone, pick and choose oneβs that deserve to know you.
Prioritise yourself, honey.
Hope it will help.
Priorities yourself first of all.
I donβt know much about nudes but I can understand what you are feeling right now. But think that its you that take that decision . Whatβs done is done, you canβt change the past now.
So thinking about it and live your life fully
I too ,sometimes got depressed over several things ,some times I feel so lonely that i want someone to hug and love .
And i think ,you should love yourself and try to find love over getting physical more.
PS: I apologies, if i said something wrong that hurts you. Sorryβ¦
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