Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

share your deepest feelings and emotions in a safe and supportive environment.

⚕️Depression

🧑Anxiety

😰Stress

💗Relationships

Create Thought

FrustrationThought

@asihuss

Last year my girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend. It’s been a year but I havnt still been able to move on from it. I thought she was the one and my best friend was like a brother to me. Knew me inside out. Now I don’t have the courage to trust anyone. Lost my trust in people.
What do you guys think I should do? How should I move on.?
Ps. When my friend group came to know about this. None supported me. Everyone said I needed to let it go…

🌇
🌉
11 replies
🌇
Anonymous

Do things that you like to divert your mind but that will not help permanently what you can do is accept that is she gone cos even if she comes back you can’t trust her I mean that is if you wish to trust her. Talk to yourself… pen it down your thoughts I am sure you are angry very angry but get it done with. It is very difficult to move on I am saying this with my experience it is but little by little everyday help yourself by doing things you love, listen to songs and sing them loudly… put your feeling in a diary… but you have to accept and guess what wait for the Right one to arrive… Don’t stop trying. I am sure there is someone:). And you know what it may not seem this way but this IS JUST A PHASE! really you will be able to move and come out stronger we know that. You know that!! Have a very happy Sunday :) Love yourself it heals everything

🌉
Anonymous

it been almost 2 years to i get cheated from my bf but still i miss him. even after knowing that whatever he says was all just lies

🌉
Anonymous

whatever you say i usually do this too make myself happy and busy.but at the end of day i miss him…
but still hav a trust issues for everyone.

@asihuss

I know how it feels. Hope u move on. Like I’m trying to do.

🌉
Anonymous

now i only believe whatever happens
happens for our good
may be we get it lately

🌉
Anonymous

and may be theres no man in my life but my family who supports me and love me the most
i dont want to remain sad just becoz someone cheated me
actually he just lost the actual one i just lost the lies i hav around me

@asihuss

There is definitely somone for you and me. Mayb we meet them later in our life. We just hav to move on from this so that we can find them later on. Thank you for your support

🌉
Anonymous

ptaa ik bari mene suna kahi
k agar marne k bad bhagwan g puche k so you enjoyed your life

what will we answer
k nae me toh udaas raha kyuki kisi ek ne muje chod diya

but actual me hmare pass kafi ways hai to be happy
travel alot
eat what makes you happy
spend time with loved ones
meet new people
explore the world

@bubbly

Listen.
You deserve better. Honestly, why are you still clinging onto someone who broke your heart and is now happy somewhere else not even giving a single thought about how you are?
You think that girl is worth the energy you spend thinking about her? No. No. No.
You gotta live your life.
Live your life like you hell want to. Live today in such a day where you dont regret even if there is no tomorrow.
Hanging onto them is no use. Nothing is gonna change.
She ain’t gonna come running apologising to you.
And about your bestfriend, shame on him. For breaking your trust and leaving you wounded this way. You are gonna find someone who will stay loyal to you no matter what. You will.
And it’s absolutely normal to have trust issues after what you’ve gone thru. Absolutely.
And its gonna be challenging to trust someone again. And thats okay. Take your time.
But remember, not everyone of us are like them. And not everyone is gonna break you.
Stay strong:)
Sending you love❤️

@asihuss

Thank you for this. Lov u…

user_group_img

8544 users have benefited
from FREE CHAT last month

Start Free Chat
start_free_chat_cta_image