Last year in COVID, my parents had FOMO of getting me married and in their defense, they dont know how to chose a right boy for their 27-year old daughter, who btw is working in a top paying job. Since they couldnt understand what kind of partner i was looking for and just wanted me to follow the rules of society as even a boy earning less than me and whose thinking doesnt match with me, is much better than me or in other words since he is a boy his progress is sure shot guaranteed. When i couldnt make them understand with reason i gained weight. i went from 70 kg to 95kg. It has been so mentally exhaustive. i was a gym person who used to spend 4 hrs daily and be mindful of what i eat. whenever i think of that i should start working out, i might be thinking way too negative, then itself something my parents do which trigger the mental fear of been assigned a wrong partner. Usual comments of my parents are like - i dont have any value, they are ashamed of being seen with me in public, xyzโs children respect parents etc. Day and night i can only think of how sooner my life would end, probably the next morning i would/could not wake up.
I can understand thisโฆ but do not compromise your life for themโฆ go to gymโฆ take care of yoirself and do not be worried about marriageโฆ marry when you are ready and to the whom you have interest inโฆ
Ityour life โฆ you are going to live with himโฆ not your parentsโฆ
I hope things will be better soon in your life ๐ค