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Anonymous

Last year in COVID, my parents had FOMO of getting me married and in their defense, they dont know how to chose a right boy for their 27-year old daughter, who btw is working in a top paying job. Since they couldnt understand what kind of partner i was looking for and just wanted me to follow the rules of society as even a boy earning less than me and whose thinking doesnt match with me, is much better than me or in other words since he is a boy his progress is sure shot guaranteed. When i couldnt make them understand with reason i gained weight. i went from 70 kg to 95kg. It has been so mentally exhaustive. i was a gym person who used to spend 4 hrs daily and be mindful of what i eat. whenever i think of that i should start working out, i might be thinking way too negative, then itself something my parents do which trigger the mental fear of been assigned a wrong partner. Usual comments of my parents are like - i dont have any value, they are ashamed of being seen with me in public, xyzโ€™s children respect parents etc. Day and night i can only think of how sooner my life would end, probably the next morning i would/could not wake up.

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I can understand thisโ€ฆ but do not compromise your life for themโ€ฆ go to gymโ€ฆ take care of yoirself and do not be worried about marriageโ€ฆ marry when you are ready and to the whom you have interest inโ€ฆ
Ityour life โ€ฆ you are going to live with himโ€ฆ not your parentsโ€ฆ
I hope things will be better soon in your life ๐Ÿค—

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