Kese ? I do wanna know ? Is it worth it to put efforts or not ?
Shynee @shynee_13
I was the good one. Mene hamesha efforts diye. I never backed off even though I knew that i was not getting the same energy back. But still my heart wanted to do so. And i kept on trying my best. I tried to change him. I suffered all the bad treatment but still i kept hoping that someday my efforts gonna work. Cheating, disrespect and a lot more. At the end he changed and realised but I changed too. This might sound stupid but i carry that self satisfaction everyday that after whatever he did i gave him all of my heart even though he never deserved it. The period was tough though but I trusted the process. Today, i am self satisfied, the nice one and healing with all the good things in my life. And he’s suffering that i never wished but yes karma works and i can see it. That’s why i believe that being good gives you all the great things in life. Maybe the duration might be lengthy. But trust the process and being bad gives you sufferings for the reat of your life. So one should choose what is better:- temporary suffering with a life lesson or permanent suffering. ☺️
Ohh ! Okayy ! Here it’s just reverse in my case ! I m trying hard to talk with her and she just ignores me most of the times ! And msg me only when she gets free or have nothing to do I guess so ! She just keeps ignoring even if she is online ! Idk what to do ? Should I keep putting efforts or just opt out now ?
Shynee @shynee_13
Did you do something that changed her or was she always like this?
I haven’t done anything ! She is always like this ! I mean yet she is not my girlfriend but she is someone I feel for ! I have told her I like her but she told me we r just friends ! But she keeps on msg me gm/gn , gives pet names , etc etc stuff like that ! It’s been over 1.5 years since I told her ! If I ignore her for 1 day she gets angry and upset bt if she ignores and I ask she just tells she was busy ! I mean how can a person be so busy ? Just a msg can be done na ! Idk i m fucking confused ! And I m falling for her daily bt now I can’t tell her cause I might loose her bt I love her so much I can’t explain ! Maybe she would understand one day
Shynee @shynee_13
You love her. You can just keep loving her for the rest of your life. Love is when you don’t expect something from the opposite person. You just keep on loving them everyday with expectations. That’s true love. Love has many definitions but trust me this is not going to end well if you don’t clear this up soon. If you actually love her then even if she doesn’t love you back than how are you supposed to loose her. She’s not with you. She’s making you handle all her mood swings. If she would have loved you, she would not have waited for 1.5 years. Trust me. I am a girl and a girl can never wait to express her love if she really loves you. And you will never loose her. If expressing your love will make her hate you. Then this is toxic. If she understands you she will respect your feelings. Take a move asap. The more you wait. The more complicated it gets. And you may loose her but your love for her may never die if it’s true.
Shynee @shynee_13
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Kushagra @kushgpt
True karma does work
