just wanted to know people who had a breakup in the last 6-7 months…
how are uh feeling… are uh moving on…
what makes uh feel loved about urself…
what are ur thoughts…
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Not last 6 months but happens last year in march now feel good yup sometimes things make me anxious but overall im good and yup in that phase when i was stuck actually i tried to get her back i did plenty of things but one day i decided that enough now need to move on and it take plenty of efforts but i appreciate myself that i took that decision and yup also start posting here too and now im feel peaceful
soooo proud of uh
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Thanks it is quite hard road and sometimes she try to contact too so that time i felt little bit emotional but otherwise im over to that relationship and everything and hope things will turn out good slowly
at what point uh felt like that yeah uh are finally over from her or the relationship… what was the feeling
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Honestly when she just try to making excuses to not talk or forget to call and then expect that i call her and that time i feel she never care about me and also she cheated on me so i try to help her but she makes excuses everytime so i found out that even if i talk to her or we settle things still she never loves me and i always begs to her attention and love so finally i delete her number and social accounts and make my mind to move on
Lisa @lisa23
Not 6 months but 4 months ago I broke up n m really happy that I did n let’s just say I was too much invested in him than he was n that’s completely broke me yeah i miss him sometimes but I don’t want him in my life like before n about moving on I think I will get there just need some time I guess n the thing I love about this is I feel great for taking stand for myself,it’s peacefull , I care less about things n focusing on myself a lot…
it feels so good listening about it
Lisa @lisa23
Yeah thankyou… took time to realise importance of self love but I intend to keep going now…
Lisa @lisa23
Can u tell me what exactly u need right now I can say something on that then…I mean I don’t know you so m confused
Lisa @lisa23
Yeah sure I can do that…
I have experienced breakups through two of my very close friends. Almost going through something similar myself but not quite (complicated). I would like to tell you a very harsh reality that you would never completely move on. The harder you try to do it in the initial days, the easier you will relapse back into those memories. It would be better to talk more to people that are beside you rather than trying to push them away. Trust me, it will help. Never live with any expectations from your ex, if they did it once, they will do it again. It gets easier for them every time and harder for you. Pen down whatever you are thinking every night before you sleep, it will help to empty those thoughts just before sleeping. Nothing will heal this but time. Happiness can be found in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light. Keep doing what makes you happy. Every day, be it minimal, just keep doing it. It may be something like playing football, hitting the gym, reading a book; but do it. Listen to songs, sad songs preferably (it may be an unpopular opinion), but it helps me to channel my feelings and let it out altogether. Especially some of the reverbs. Hang in there man, trust me, it gets better ^_^
