Abhi

Bro write down everything you are feeling and eventually you will feel better.
No need to tell anyone as no one cares .
I did it and results were apparant.

Just frustrated 😠 

Frustration

I love her so much🥺

3am Thoughts

I wish she will choose me 

LGBTQ

I guess she's not the one 🤷🏻‍♂️

Confusion

Wanna be withyou always my lovely gf 

Totally frustrated can't take it anymore .I give up 

Exhausted

My girlfriend broke up with me saying  she needs space after 7 years of relationship . This happened few months ago.
This broke me in and out 💔and now I'm getting quite normal from this situation.
Sometimes i feel like to make her regret .
I wanted to do this only because she hurt me too bad that time.

Comment your thoughts on this buddies..



Breakup

This girl I really like texts me every week but when I reply she ghosts me for 5-6 days, idk what should I do with such a person.

Anxiety

I am living a somewhat happy single life. But from the past few days my mental health is disturbed due to something happening personally. Actually a few days back I met a random girl on Instagram. We introduced ourselves and made a whole lot of good conversation, prolonged for at least one month. All of a sudden she started ignoring or keeping herself away from me. I noticed this as she used to be late replying to my texts, a lot of time ignoring the texts (talking about something random or totally ignoring the message, leaving on seen etc). Every time I used to carry the conversation again. 

But then I started to feel that this behaviour of her, maybe she needs some space for sometime or maybe forever or maybe she is interested in someone else (maybe her colleague. She sometimes talks about them and used to travel a good number of times). Anyway none of the business for me in her life. But in all the cases it's better for everyone that I should stay away from her as much as possible. That's what I did. I accepted the truth and started concentrating on my work life more, again. 

After a week of ignoring she again started texting like before. Just like most of them, even I felt that maybe she is ready to talk now. So again we had a good convo for two straight days. All of a sudden she is behaving the same way as of the previous week. 

After thinking and processing a lot i feel that maybe, maybe she fought and broke up with her guy and so she texted me to feel less alone and to breath a little (just like we all do). But now she is ignoring me again because they both have patched up, which is great for her. I don't have any problem with that. She is not the problem. HEADS UP - I am not sure even if this may have happened, lol.

The actual problem is that the constant change of her behaviour towards me, has disturbed my mental health. As said earlier that i am single, you would have obviously guessed by now that I may have kept expectations with her. I obviously agree that i had expectations. I also know that Expectations is the one that destroys us, not the other person. In this case too, my expectations towards her are destroying my mental health, NOT her. So now since I know that i have lowered my expectations but unable to kill it totally.

So the only thing I want now is to get my good mental health back again. What should I do for that?



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