Just a random thought,
Do boys(specifically Indian) care about a girlβs virginity when theyβre about to marry her. Will happily accept brutal honesty. I just want to mention that, there are some cases where the girl didnβt have a choice. I hope I donβt have to explain further.
Ashura @abhishek_
It depends on that boys mentality if he want to see future with you he will dont care about your past how darker it is he will just accept it all he will just give value to only you and respect your words, your feelings and your emotions in my perspective marriage is only soul to soul connection if he want that connection he will dont care that your virginity or not.
I really hope thatβs the case
Ashura @abhishek_
Dont worry about anything just be your self
I wouldnβt mind if it was his choice. And if he is disease-free.
From my point of view i will not marry a girl whoβs been used π€·π»ββοΈ simple
I feel bad for the girl youβre going to marryπ. Itβs not about being used yk? People get raped?
Okay leaving out that rape topic β¦ Now suppose a guy is working his ass of in his early 20βs and 25β doing work day and night to his life brightβ¦not going into relationship and all and just focusing onto his carrierβ¦ And at the same type the is enjoying and loosing her virginity over some playboi dude βΊοΈπ€·π»ββοΈ?? So it isnβt unfair for that professional guy to ask for a virgin girl !! Uss bandey ne itni mehnat ki apney 20βs and 25βs mai taaki he can give his wife and family a good life and in return he gets this !!! Aur aakhir tum jaisey log question karney lagay π future wife pe ki you feel pity for you !! I just shared my views either take it or ignore it β¦ π
I didnβt meant in that way Iβm really sorry if you have taken it in that way π my apologiesβ¦ i have written my side but that comment in not able to published here β¦ app admins would soon approve it then you see my side of the story
Are you the only one whoβs working his ass off? And Sir, WORKING and SEXUAL relationships are 2 different things???!!! What do you mean we donβt work? Or we are not worried about OUR future?πAnd whoβs even asking you to JUST focus on your work haan? Let me tell you, weβre in 21st century and sex is normal sir. You should have it too. It obviously depends on your choice. But let me tell you a story, I had a cousin who βsaved herself for marriageβ , she got married, she was brought up in a conservative household. After about 1.5 years the guy filed for divorce. He said and I am quoting βIt felt like I was sleeping with a mannequin. Expression-less.β I am not saying that what he did was right, but sexual education is greatly looked down on here. And it is actually messing up everyoneβs mind. Awareness is so important. And people like you have to work on their thinking a lil bit. Try to get out of that society box and think like a human being.
Get your head out of the gutter first. I donβt have to prove anything to you. And I actually feel bad for the girl youβre going to end up with. I was talking about girls in general πI didnβt lose my virginity to a fuckboy. And even if I did, youβre no one to make me feel bad about it alright? You yourself are such a big loser. Learn to respect people if you want some in return. And ik everyone has a different choice, alright, but thereβs always a better way to put your opinion. I hope you get better with time, even if not for yourself but for your future wife and daughter maybe. All the best.
If heβs himself virgin then he probably look for a virgin girl if he isnβt then I donβt think so.