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Just a random thought,
Do boys(specifically Indian) care about a girl’s virginity when they’re about to marry her. Will happily accept brutal honesty. I just want to mention that, there are some cases where the girl didn’t have a choice. I hope I don’t have to explain further.

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Ashura @abhishek_

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It depends on that boys mentality if he want to see future with you he will dont care about your past how darker it is he will just accept it all he will just give value to only you and respect your words, your feelings and your emotions in my perspective marriage is only soul to soul connection if he want that connection he will dont care that your virginity or not.

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I really hope that’s the case

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Ashura @abhishek_

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Dont worry about anything just be your self

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I wouldn’t mind if it was his choice. And if he is disease-free.

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From my point of view i will not marry a girl who’s been used πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ simple

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I feel bad for the girl you’re going to marryπŸ™‚. It’s not about being used yk? People get raped?

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Okay leaving out that rape topic … Now suppose a guy is working his ass of in his early 20’s and 25’ doing work day and night to his life bright…not going into relationship and all and just focusing onto his carrier… And at the same type the is enjoying and loosing her virginity over some playboi dude β˜ΊοΈπŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ?? So it isn’t unfair for that professional guy to ask for a virgin girl !! Uss bandey ne itni mehnat ki apney 20’s and 25’s mai taaki he can give his wife and family a good life and in return he gets this !!! Aur aakhir tum jaisey log question karney lagay πŸ™‚ future wife pe ki you feel pity for you !! I just shared my views either take it or ignore it … πŸ™‚

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I didn’t meant in that way I’m really sorry if you have taken it in that way πŸ™‚ my apologies… i have written my side but that comment in not able to published here … app admins would soon approve it then you see my side of the story

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Are you the only one who’s working his ass off? And Sir, WORKING and SEXUAL relationships are 2 different things???!!! What do you mean we don’t work? Or we are not worried about OUR future?πŸ’€And who’s even asking you to JUST focus on your work haan? Let me tell you, we’re in 21st century and sex is normal sir. You should have it too. It obviously depends on your choice. But let me tell you a story, I had a cousin who β€œsaved herself for marriage” , she got married, she was brought up in a conservative household. After about 1.5 years the guy filed for divorce. He said and I am quoting β€œIt felt like I was sleeping with a mannequin. Expression-less.” I am not saying that what he did was right, but sexual education is greatly looked down on here. And it is actually messing up everyone’s mind. Awareness is so important. And people like you have to work on their thinking a lil bit. Try to get out of that society box and think like a human being.

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Get your head out of the gutter first. I don’t have to prove anything to you. And I actually feel bad for the girl you’re going to end up with. I was talking about girls in general πŸ™‚I didn’t lose my virginity to a fuckboy. And even if I did, you’re no one to make me feel bad about it alright? You yourself are such a big loser. Learn to respect people if you want some in return. And ik everyone has a different choice, alright, but there’s always a better way to put your opinion. I hope you get better with time, even if not for yourself but for your future wife and daughter maybe. All the best.

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If he’s himself virgin then he probably look for a virgin girl if he isn’t then I don’t think so.

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