Iβve seen and read about with these perfect families where everyone gets along, people have game nights, thereβs minimal fights and very soon everything is forgiven and forgotten and i just need to know, does this happen in real life? Why did i end up with a messed up family who just fights all the time and can be so toxic? I love them all but man i wish they were a little bit like the ones in the books.
Oh I totally relate to this. I just I had a better family and do blame a lot of my behavior on them. But then I try to remember how grateful I am to have got them and try to find happiness in small moments, and keep myself happy and satisfied
My family sucks asf too, if dysfunctional was a family, itβd be my family.
Probably the only child who wants her parents divorced coz sheβs done seeing toxicity π€¦π»ββοΈ
I can relate to it, i feel i have social anxiety only around family and other relatives coz idk when Iβll trigger something, my every action is monitored
Strangers r much easier to be with⦠Lesser judgements
Books r fake i feelβ¦ Maybe itβs there, just not for me or some of us
N thereβs no point expecting them to change, it honestly kills us more
My parents are fine, great honestly. Itβs mostly my grandparents. They live with us cuz theyβre old and they are toxic af and somehow have the ability to bring out the worst in my parents. I absolutely agree with the rest though
Thatβs another generation,i donβt hate them
But i really donβt align with their views at times,and age comes with stubbornness as well
So ya that happens too,they instigate fights as well