Cool Shona @shona22
I’ve lost interest in everything and everyone. It’s just him i think about all the time and he always ignores me, never takes me seriously.
He’s not ending things neither being serious, but I’m getting hurt eventually.
I feel so empty like I’ve not anything inside me other than him. I’ve lost myself in order to love him and he doesn’t care even after knowing everything.
Manoj Gupta @manoj10296
Maybe he likes someone else, you just focus on yourself, your studies/career. Cheers
Cool Shona @shona22
He should tell me clearly if there is someone else.
I’m at a very good stage of my career, i try to focus on improving myself, but you know it’s that thought before sleeping. How can he forget me so easily. Doesn’t he get 2 min time in the whole day just to ask me how i am or to reply to that hi is sent 14 hrs ago.
I don’t know what to do.
Manoj Gupta @manoj10296
If he’s not showing any interest, I’ll suggest you to not waste your precious time on him.
shiva kumar @shivavolley99
Just cut it off …you are hurting yourself without knowing it
shiva kumar @shivavolley99
See you have given something that you have experience or no one given that to you that is love…when you love someone that deep you will lose yourself especially when your past hasn’t given you enough love
it’s better to end things on your own when you’re hurting like this. if you keep pressuring and stressing yourself for him when he doesn’t care about you then it’s a waste of time and love. if you want to make it work, then the efforts have to be from both sides. by what you’re saying, it seems like you’re the only one trying to make it work. you’re getting hurt in this process.
please rethink and do what’s best for you.
Cool Shona @shona22
Thanks for your thoughts
It’s the first time I’m opening up about it anywhere. Everyone thinks i have a very smooth life going on.
The main problem is that at one point he made me feel so special. It was not always long distance. We went on road trips and all, shared beautiful moments, i thought it was the starting phase of a relationship but he never promised me the future together.
It’s fine for me if he ends things properly, I’ve helped him a lot in moving abroad and i don’t deserve this ignorance.
When i make myself strong and try to move on then he comes back and talks to me properly then again my hopes wake up and then again he ignores me. It’s been a month and it’s affecting my health badly.
