Ive been with my girlfriend for more than a week. We fell fast for each other. I've never felt this way about someone before. She makes me happy and she gives me butterflies. I can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with her. But we are young and theirs no telling if we'd make it to marriage. We also live in different places. Its not a significant distance but it is at the same time...For some reason this week feels different than the last and the week before that. We talked about kids and protecting each other and supporting each other. And i want that with her. Did I rush into this too fast and only think with my heart and not my head?

ive never met someone like her, she loves me for me and i love her for who she is

idk sense of humor, shes sassy, she speaks her mind, and when we met we did things the whole time. We went on this hike at midnight. It was beautiful

dont know, but shes really short and i kinda tower over her

yea maybe ill give it some time, maybe its just because its a monday idk

idk she acts like a baby.  She likes to cuddle a lot too. Shes adventurous 

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Hey there, hope You have a nice day.
Around two months ago I broke up with my girlfriend, we were in a long distance relationship but i tried to visit her whenever i could and had time off work (around once or twice a month, more often during lockdowns). I was the one who brought this topic up but it seemed like we both thought it would be the best for us and we parted ways in seemingly friendly way although we knew we probably couldnt stay even friends anymore. Now two months after, im still thinking about her, its just so painful to imagine myself without her. I wrote to her yesterday and we talked, I tried to get back with her, not even right away, i told her I can wait for the feelings to grow back again but she told me that she doesnt see any possibility. I wasnt ready back then to give up on my life in my city as i started work some time before that and because of my cowardness and inability to decide we broke up. Its the one and only regret in my life and i feel like its gonna haunt me for the rest of it because i feel like she was the one i was supposed to meet in my life, I tried talking to her about it yesterday and really poured everything into sharing my feelings but it just seemed like she couldnt even think about it. I know the world doesnt end on one relationship but what if this one was the one that was supposed to last for life, I told her that im ready to start over, I can even move to her city right away just to be for her and be of support but She said there's no feelings on her side anymore. I know i should just give up since she doesnt seem interested but its just so damn hard to give up on the one person that i really ever loved, she was the one that showed me that im capable of feeling and I already said goodbye but I cant stop thinking about it. What is the meaning of this life if the one true love of my life was there and i cant pursue it.

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I’m sad. There’s this girl who I love, our 3 year anniversary was in November. Everything felt like it was so good in our relationship. And for 2 years it was so perfect. Some friends even said like a fairytale. She is a lot older then me, and had been married in the past. She had been acting off, almost like she was trying to find things to argue about. And we never used to really argue. But she had been nit picking at little things she’s never cared about before. Etc. I felt something was up so I had went through her phone. Only to see there was a text to her ex wife, “you should have let me rub you down.” It’s been 2 weeks since I saw that and I have just grown so much sadder. I was diagnosed with MDD and BPD and have been trying to manage it, with tips I received from tons of counseling. But god it’s just so hard now. She proposed to me a couple of days after and I said yes. I just hate this because I love her so much, and we have been talking about getting married for a while. And this would be my first time getting married, so why not with someone I’m absolutely in love with? But now I just can’t help but be sad. We talked about it since then and she said she was just joking and how it was a joke. But you don’t joke like that with your ex! You don’t, it’s practically a universal rule. And I told her I couldn’t trust her anymore, especially in talking with her. and she said “I know but ever since We got engaged I haven’t.” Like okay so you act like we weren’t together a whole 2 years before that. And we were friends before we even got together. So I’m just feeling incredibly betrayed right about now. And kicking myself why I even said yes. Even more so, because why did she wait till now to even propose??? Because she just didn’t want to lose me and this is her last Hail Mary? Am I just overreacting? I don’t even know at this point and it’s giving me a headache. My heart is just hurting wondering I deserved it. Because to me, it sounds like she cheated with her ex wife. And all of this just has me crying my eyes out tonight. 🤧😢

How to understand My Partner, we are engaged, She gets in and out off the relation as she feels Confused as she didn’t get much time to move on from her previous breakup.

Now that she had told that she doesn’t want to continue this relationship as I am not able to understand her .

Sometimes she wants me to ask about things repeatedly to get answers and sometimes she gets irritated when I ask Repeatedly 😅.. Sometimes She stops talking and ignore my calls and says I didn’t come after that ..

I told her that I can’t read mind , I will only be able to understand you once you tell me things clearly initially or when we start to live together.

If you didn’t give a chance for me to try and then complain I didn’t try or I didn’t understand how will I know..

After that We are talking well.. but still she is confused about the relation.. in this Talk many misunderstandings where cleared.

Just waiting for her to clear her mind and the. Decide about our relationship as I don’t want her to make a decision in this Confused state.

Question to Ladies out here How will someone understands you if you don’t open up things or if you don’t say that you like or dislike when we care/Love ( In our way).

Question to Gents: Make sure you open up and say that we can’t read mind to your partners so that misunderstandings can be avoided to an extent.

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Hi guys, I'm just here to share my story and potentially help people out there struggling with difficult break ups. I was in a 7 year relationship with a psychologically abusive girlfriend that made me believe for so long that what her and I had was real love. She lied to me countless times, she was always sneaky and hid a lot of things from me. At some point she would barely give me any attention for over 8 months and I used to call her out for it but to no avail. She then ended up breaking up with me stating that I got 'boring'. I was so strung up on what she told me was love so I waited for her to come back. I faked who I was to not be boring for her. I never realized how special I actually was and that I wasn't the problem. I made excuses for her a million times over in the hope that she would change. The girl also cheated on me once and came to me crying saying that it was a mistake. I made the mistake and believed her. I am trying not to talk about the things she did as much because I don't want it to be about bashing her. I always made excuses about her having a tough childhood as the reason why she's that way. I ended up becoming an emotionless cold hearted man and that's when she fell for me. She fell for the constant fights and arguments and my unapologetic manner. That isn't who I've always been but that's what I became because of the constant heartbreak and heart ache. I got to a point where it was affecting my social life because she tried to isolate me from my friends by telling me she wants my time. I made a lot of mistakes in that relationship by believing what she was saying. She used to threaten suicide as well every time I tried to leave. That pulled on my heart string because I lost a sister to suicide. Basically I was in a relationship with a person with crazy level of narcissism. One night this year I caught her in a lie and she couldn't squirm away. I finally chose to leave and this time I committed to it fully. I was depressed because I did not know any different for 7 years than her. I convinced myself that I was the issue and that I would never find someone to love me like she did. It took 1 month of therapy and watching youtube (DoctorRamani) to learn the traits of narcissism. Since then I blocked her on every platform and she even recently emailed me to have a conversation. I had the conversation with her but I was not interested in being a friend as she suggested so I asked her to leave it at that. Ever since the breakup this has been the most peaceful I have ever felt in my life. I always thought that I would never find better but I didn't realize that I was missing something inside me that I had to find. I found happiness in myself first. I started working out more and focusing on my future a lot more. If love comes it will come but I wouldn't go out of my way to chase after it. People trust me, things only get better. I know it may be hard right now but I promise if you stay patient with yourself and work on yourself, however cliché it may sound. Embrace what you feel right now, all the pain, and turn into something positive. Use platforms like these so that you don't feel alone or go and be with your friends and family. Go out and do things for yourself. Don't focus on trying  replace them because that's where we go wrong. Focus on healing what was damaged. You also don't want to hurt someone else in an attempt to make your ex jealous, that doesn't make you cool. I promise you things will get better. Peace and love to you all. I'll share more of my story if needed. I left out a lot and I still wrote all of this 😅

So here is something i need advice about.
there was this girl in my school whom i liked but she didn't like me back,typical scenario,but in my case she was and is my best friend.
we share everything with each other and i have accepted the fact that she doesn't like me back and doesn't look at me that way.
i had the option of choosing the same college as her but didn't opt for that and chose a different college in different city
So the problem now i am facing is that she left my city for college and even my college has begun in different city,everytime i talk to her or see pics of her enjoying in her college that makes me regret everything about my college decision and makes me even doubt my career decisions .

iget a call from ex, says she still loves me. asks if we can work on this. promises she will mend all the issues. wants me forever.
we talked over call and even did video call. 
asks me to note the grudges igot, says we will sort this out.
now its sunday already, almost 2 days passed, nothing from her. ik its weekend, she might had some plans. but this thing is eating my mind up. disturbed!
you tell a person about the love, say things like forever and ever after and then dont show up. ineed peace. since the time we were together to till date, my mind is all fcuked up. and the fun fact, I genuinely love her, and was looking forward to mend things up.

Love

I feel like I am In a real world now, I was Ij a relationship from last 4 years and yesterday she said she just want to be my GF she don't want to get married and the painful thing was she said It so normally and I started feeling bad because I was emotional fool who was having different things In mind but as she have a backup, I mean person to marry her, she was so practical with that 

Girlfriend

I am in relationship from a year almost and donna my gf just told me that she can't focus on her studies n stuffs so but she also told me that she will love me forever but she wants to live a simple life as a friend n in future she told to marry me but she will ask about me from her parents...

But from some days we don't have conversations like before we had to do 
She don't talk to me freely
I dont know how I'm feeling now idk what is going in my mind 
Im just feeling sad that everything is ending day by day that we used to bave before 🥺
But its just a feeling also im not sure about that it is ending but she don't talk like before
Please someone help me out.

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